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Just call me Ash

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I roughly half agree with this. My favourite analogy is: the Dom drives the train, the sub has their hand on the emergency break, and can rule out destinations. Something that's often overlooked is that a Dom also gets to define their boundaries, places they don't want to go. It's a dance.

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Just call me Ash's avatar Just call me Ash @ash.ashtardeza.com
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But I definitely agree with the conclusion: if someone tries to tell you that they control your limits or boundaries: run like hell.

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Shimaira ⛥'s avatar Shimaira ⛥ @shimaira.com
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Yes, Doms def need to have their boundaries respected too! And aftercare isn't just for subs. A dance is a good way to describe it 💜

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