I don’t know how to reach the people that need to hear that worse things are real and can happen and voting for the lesser of two evils is absolutely still worth doing no matter how angry you are that it is your choice, I do not get the desire to let everything burn down.
That's where I eventually got to, even my small vote adds up to something, it is a registered action of protest against this vile dude. I didn't vote last election, I need to vote on this one. Talking with conservative coworkers really helped frame things. They have no real idea of current events.