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Coda@codarobo.online |
I used to craft personas to match my friends when I was growing up, thinking i needed to try to be the person they specifically would like best. I think i still do it a bit, but less and with more awareness that that is happening. And having my own interests is something I’ll defend rigorously
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Coda
@codarobo.online
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And as I’ve gotten older I’ve felt more internal push to be Me unapologetically in as many situations as I can manage, without trying to mediate myself as much through my understanding of what someone else wants. It’s hard to 100% avoid it I feel but it’s good to push back in various ways too
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Honestly, at almost 50, I still do this
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