Oh good, I'm not the only one who finds discord servers impossible to use because you're always jumping in mid-conversation and by the time you scroll back to understand the context the topic has changed five more times 🙃
there are two discord servers i maintain a decently regular presence and one of them is one that i have with my sister because we talk so much and about different subjects that it just made sense for us to have a whole server for us and nobody else is allowed there