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I argue that reading kink is in itself a kinky act, in that, like kink, the person engaging in it can imagine being in danger or harm, while having an escape hatch. The story is itself a scene, and safe words exist outside the scene.

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Ordering a meal is not the same as eating a meal. In art, it's okay to not show somebody flagging down a waiter, giving them the order, and waiting for their food. It's okay to just show them eating. It's okay to just show them fucking, even if that fucking is dangerous or harmful.

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