Reminder that lots of people you encounter are hanging on to a thread by their fingernails so unless it's psychedelics, therapy, a meaningfully viable organizational roadmap, a hug, or some other real support, maybe ask yourself if what you're about to offer is helpful or if you're just startin shit
Note: some people *do need* shit started in their general direction. Seeking to know the difference or balance between these is the truth of discernment, and the way of the true sage