But it's tricky to untangle those things and a lot of the time I'm left concluding it's healthier to not obsess over it, to just... clean up the messes and move forward
Like, recently we put curtains in windows that didn't have them before because my eyes are very sensitive to sunlight now and around the end of May, the sun started hitting an angle around dinner time was just perfect to hit me in a way that is painful and disorienting