think higher of myself than my irony and sarcasm perhaps imply... Just. I'm sorry if it comes across the wrong way. I'd hate to think you'd read my posts in the wrong fashion when they weren't intended that way. And it is something I need to work on.
I've never got the impression you dislike yourself. I think if people are getting that impression, it's because they associate sex with degradation. That's on them, and I feel like it's always been part of the point of the way you express these things. It feels very similar to me, and I love it.
First of all as someone that deals with depression, sending you virtual hugs, Second, you have nothing to worry about at least with me, I can see that some of your posts are tongue in cheek. Perhaps I just have the same sense of humour as a Canadian.