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40 something chaotic ADHD'er. Mostly communist. Active participant in the destruction of capitalism & patriarchy. anti-genocide.


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He's been doing a high stress job for yrs, maybe

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Or songs off the radio

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Sending lots of love to you.

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This is where having QA/QC on staff is very useful, although many indies don't bring them in until the end. My partner has worked in it for 20 yrs. E says it's much easier & better to have some QA to catch issues earlier so they are big issues later

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Exactly. Events don't need to be scheduled late for any good reason, either. Although, I don't think he is fully capable of the job anymore, but that has nothing to do about him wanting to be in bed early

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I disagree it means he's not up to the job. My mom is a 5 am wake up person. Usually in bed by 9 & always has been. However, if she NEEDS or wants to be awake longer for whatever reason, she can & functions fine. She used to work over night shifts as a prison guard

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Sure, but the optics of saying it to the public, right now, is not good

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I don't think there is a reason for events to scheduled that late anyway, but it's definitely not the time to be saying it.

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And not just a word, FDR pulled the country out of The Great Depression at that. He was a powerhouse. He also needed a wheel chair often, but didn't let the public see it often. He would walk & stand without an aid. My grandfather had polio as well & I remember what it took out of him to do that

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His 4th term! He's the reason there are term limits

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At the time, our far right didn't have the numbers either, but it's something to be cautious of. Can't sit back and assume you've won. My partner is English. He is so happy to not have a Tory govt.

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And that I didn't need to apologize. Which is all fine, but I still remember it & the day I realized what I had done.

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Absolutely, yes! I am someone who is guilty of this years ago. I thought I was "going for it like a boss" but, looking back on it, that's what I did to him. I apologized to him a few yrs after when I realized what I had done. He said he was flattered that a hot woman would pursue him like that.

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And I'm saying this as someone whose ancestors were, quite possibly, some of those who stole & killed. If not, they definitely benefited directly from that stealing & killing as they have been in North America since the early 1700s at least.

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I agree that the British system was very much a very well controlled caste system until about WW1, but this is a wild take. Yes, poor ppl left England because there was a hope of something better or different elsewhere, but that doesn't negate the fact that the 'better" was stolen from others

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This happened about ba decade ago in Canada. We're now poised for a far right govt next election, & I mean hanging out with Diagolon fascism right wing

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It's not out. He admits to having a sexual relationship with the 23 yr old nanny only hrs after she had arrived at his home to work.

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Yes, the 2022 allegations were reported.

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That's not it. These are very serious allegations & even his "defence" makes him a creep at best

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I understand this feeling, completely. But, this also allows those authors to be predators.

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Yup! And I'm learning that he seems to have a history of this.

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Get ready for the "but there's no evidence!" Ppl to show up.

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Did you say the same in regards to Trump, Weinstein, Epstein, etc....?

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What evidence would you accept?

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You have got to be kidding me, right?

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Do you assume all outlets are illegitimate?

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Many will continue to ask "Why didn't they come forward sooner?" "It's legal!!"

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Right?! What an absolute pos he is.

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You're missing the whole point here while centering yourself. Have an ok day.

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One of my exes is Croatian. It is an incredibly fascinating culture.

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And I'm talking about the fact that most victims don't get a podcast talking about what happened to them or The Rolling Stone picking up the story. Most of us are simply ignored & shunned.

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There are days where I think about how much more simple & easy my life would be, not to mention less expensive, without a dog. But then, I remember how much unconditional love & joy they bring & realize it's all worth it. I've had 2 basset hounds, so I understand slobber.

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As did I. Lol

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Hard not to be.

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B/c that's what media does. They have to until proven guilty. They could watch someone murder someone in broad daylight & the media would still say "alleged" just in case they are found not guilty.

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I'm sure you said the same about Trump & Epstein, & Weinstein....etc ..

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What? I didn't even get that. No one with a podcast talked to me about being assaulted.

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Ha!! I guess if you're that short, you need to aim where you can reach.

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I just love dogs!

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Libel laws in the UK are extremely strict & punitive.

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Want to believe? I certainly don't want to believe this. Been a big fan of Gaiman for a long time.

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I recommend throat punches. Not all baddies have ball sacks.

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I'm seeing that....

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Most of us never can "prove" it, though, & you should know that.

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"potentially innocent" that's similar to what I was told about my rapist. Since rape happens behind closed doors usually w/o any direct evidence, most rapists get off w no consequences. He wasn't innocent.

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It's not vague at all. The allegations are very specific.

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He admits to a sexual relationship with a woman nearly 40 yrs younger than him that started within hrs of her first arriving at his home to work as a nanny.

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