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Tonya Song

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Wow a lot of new followers suddenly

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I think a part of me is just tired of social media to be honest. I'm on Twitter less which I'm glad about, though I really do gotta commit to posting here more often.

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I really REALLY gotta remember this place exists. Twitter is once again doing a number on my mental health.

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It's weird this person claims to be Native, yet strangely treats every Native person in this fandom like crap. That says more about who you are. He's not Native. He just uses it as a means to excuse his behavior & his fake regalia.

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When I say, "Doxxed" I mean the man revealed the child's full name and photo that also had the child's mom on it. And then even admits to contacting other people the minor knows in order to dig up dirt on the c h i l d. So full on stalking a child and even admitting to stalking the child like???

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Oh he's never stopped being obsessed with me. I'm definitely exhausted because he's not only harassing me but he's still defending the degradation of Native cultures. He keeps invoking being Native (which I find dubious) while he continues to trample on things we hold to be holy.

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This guy continues to be obsessed with me, and not only that, targeting other Natives. Normally I wouldn't bring something like this up because he never stops mentioning me, but he's starting to go after other Natives and it's upsetting that with his following continues to do this to others.

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Realizing this is also a better place to make friends. I just feel so much less judgement in this space.

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I was happy to feel settled as trans-femme, I thought I was done exploring, but I'm back in exploration again, and not sure how to deal with it after all this time. I'll need time. I know this isn't a bad thing, it's just difficult for me at this time. Thank you for your patience

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And with today's society, there's so much stigma about trans ppl being "confused" which has made this all the more difficult, not to mention d3tranitioning discourse. It's why again those things are so harmful to us queer/trans folks. It made this so much harder on myself.

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While I know there will be beautiful new experiences because of this, I also am partially mourning since I don't know if my femme will come back. It may come back, but I just haven't felt it anymore in so long.

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This has actually been quite tough for me because I've felt femme & loved it a ton. I've felt comfortable and happy in that for the last 10 years, but the last few months something switched & no matter what I did, I just couldn't hold on to where I was before.

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So uhh... I've gone through an unexpected change...

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Okay I really gotta get on here more, especially with how exhausting Twitter has gotten. My gawd people...

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