when i got out of my divorce and was dealing with the ptsd from it, they were like "oh man we should have said something , that guy was such a creep , we should have helped you , we should have _ "
yeah ? get fucked
im not sure about you guys but i do think it is part of the responsibility of caring about someone when you think they are in a dangerous situation to tell them there are huge red flags abound when they are wearing rose tinted glasses & cannot see them. dont be afraid to speak up, PLEASE.