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Isabel Cooper

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Added, and then I swear I'm going to go be productive: you can even think someone did a kind of shitty thing without having to pass a grand judgment on them as a person. There were many, many breakups where I was like "...yeah, that person was being a dingus, I see why you left," but...

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...didn't feel a need to have a grand moral confrontation with them about it or stop being their friend or anything. They were a bad SO to the other person at that point in time, their partner reacted, and it's fundamentally none of my business unless actual abuse happened.

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