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Jenni (An Oklahomo Girl) 🏳️‍⚧️

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🩵🩷🤍🩷🩵 Trans Lesbian, living in a small Oklahoma town that is full of transphobes.
she/her/they
18+ 🔞
Covid Widow 2020
My Linktree: linktr.ee/jenni.sky


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I have watched Sydnie Christmas sing Tomorrow at least 2 dozen times and I cry every time I watch it!

www.youtube.com/watch?v=pjyy...

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I get that also. 💖🫂🫂🫂

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Thank you so much. *hugs*

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Same, before transition I just didn't care if I was around anyone. After I started to transition I found that loneliness can be so crushing and painful that it can physically hurt.

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Of course you can, my door is always open.

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Oh it's okay flower, I am sure you struggle with many of the same feelings. *hugs back to you*

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I have an extra bedroom in my house and I would happily take another doll or two in but no one wants to be where I am.

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I often feel like I am reaching out into the void hoping to grasp another human to hold on to. Only to end another day alone with nothing more than my Blahaj to hold on to.

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No family near me and I have exactly one friend and she lives an hour away. I see her every couple of weeks. It is not enough though. Perhaps we should gather up a dozen of us touch starved individuals and rent a really big house.

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I had a friend over this morning and she reached out for a hug when she got up to leave. I held on until she said: Jen, I really need to get to work. I very reluctantly let her go...Sigh

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It's always good to bring a little joy.

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Hey I have that condition also!

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Nope, I don't need any more, I already have one set too many.

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Well I hope the 3rd time's the charm. I got my ears pierced for the 3rd time today. Both of the first two times they failed and my ears were a mess. This time I got Titanium studs and I hope they work. I am tired of wearing clip ons.

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Sigh.......................

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It's a slow process but most people let it happen because it does not touch them directly. In this case I would be more worried about forced detransition.

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What could possibly go wrong?

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I have been telling cis friends that the goal is to make me and all trans women illegal. I normally get an eye roll and told I am just a drama queen. Or it gets really condicinding and I am told that is just all those hormones you take talking.

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OMG I would have never guessed!

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That and we are just an easy target. We have been so demonized on the right that that is all the average person ever hears about us, unless they know someone who is trans. That makes it safe to vote against our interest.

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I have a feeling it will open more memories for me that I have kept buried for over 50 years. I'm still having a lot of trouble processing our discussion of Ziggy Stardust. That's been what 4-5 weeks ago? Inside I am a fucking mess.

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I am always in a dark place.

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I went through a lot of childhood trauma over what we now know as gender dysphoria. Including a week in a hospital when I was 11. Because a fucking monster tried to beat me to death when he caught me wearing a dress. I keep opening more repressed trauma. So nope not doing it alone.

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Democrats are our only friends in Washington. At the same time they are our worst enemy because we never know the moment they will turn on us.

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With my background I definitely want someone with me.

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Hi Cassie, I love the shirt! I haven't watched the movie yet. I don't want to watch it alone. Yet there is not one person that wants to watch a movie with me that will probably leave Jenni an emotional wreck.

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That was impressive. As a covid widow all I can say is bless her! 💖

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I have my days like that but mainly I am reliving my teen years. They were so bad the first time that they don't count.

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Heck I'm 65 everyone is young to me.

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She is, I always thought she was older from her posts.

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Honey, just block those asswipes they are not worth your time or the oxygen they use. Or send them to me I will be happy to tell them to go fuck off.

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Damn Katie, I've got age spots older than you...Sigh

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Damn I feel this sister! I would quote a song but I'm already being mansplained on my musical taste on here tonight.

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This is twice you have come on here to mansplain to me & make sure that you insult me at the same time. I told you the first time I did not give a damn what the song is about & I don't like the song. That should have been a hint, yet here you are 2 posts later telling me what you think it is about.🤦‍♀️

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Hey Emily is getting ready to drop a new song in three days!

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It must have bothered you. You had to come back and tell me it didn't bother you and that I could not have a sane opinion of a song you must absolutely adore. I hope you don't like Imagine by John Lennon since I don't like it either.

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Yes it was. I have spent the last week cleaning out my art studio. I have been using it for storage since my wife died and it was just full of boxes and junk. But it is the one room that I can keep cool in triple digit weather. Tomorrow I will move in there for the rest of the summer.

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It has been pretty hot up there, do you guys have A/C? I know it is not a big thing in the PNW.

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Long day flower?

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Damn it Ripley, that is the card I drew this morning for my daily card. The King of Wands inverted, it has been sitting here staring at me in my card holder all day. I didn't like it 7 hours ago and well...crap. I am not a patient person...Sigh

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As a trans woman in Oklahoma all I can say is...PARTY!🎉🎉

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Well I had a motorcycle licence at 14 and that was 51 years ago.

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Can we help Juno out just a bit today! I know what it is like to run out of food. For those of you who haven't it's fucking scary!

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Yep, you grabbed me in Chapter 1 with the phone...Not going to say anymore. No spoilers here.

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I'm seven chapters in right now. Get this book you won't be disappointed!

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Same, I bought it and then said nope not doing this alone.

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Good morning Janey! I am glad to see you posting and safe. I'm still waiting to hear from some friends from my beloved little town of Freeport. Took your advice and followed your friend. 😊

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🤣🤣

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Hey there good morning flower! I love the choice of t-shirt for today.

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Thank you sis. *Love and Hugs*

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