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Kay Orchison

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Often boils down to the way power makes itself invisible to the people who possess it. So often in these situations it's a famous man who just doesn't comprehend that a much younger and/or less famous woman is not easily able to meaningfully consent if he makes the first move.

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Peter Kelly's avatar Peter Kelly @thepeterkelly.bsky.social
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Yes. This. Also, have some awareness of how whatever you're into could be confusing or upsetting to someone not into it. At the very least, Establish some trust before diving into anything that others may find intense.

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