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one of the hardest things for me to do is accept support from other people, and one of the things that makes it easier for me is remembering that it feels nice to help someone i care about, even when i'm going out of my way… so why wouldn't other people feel that way about me, too?

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Kandy's avatar Kandy @kandyelmo.com
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oh god, yea that's a great way to look at that tysm

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Foxhack / Dave Silva's avatar Foxhack / Dave Silva @foxhack.bsky.social
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I have... conflicting feelings about this.

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Sarah, only *looks* disinterested's avatar Sarah, only *looks* disinterested @imsarahnow.bsky.social
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that's an amazing way to reframe it 🥰

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April Kirby 🏳️‍⚧️'s avatar April Kirby 🏳️‍⚧️ @msaprilkirby.bsky.social
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It's true! And also hard to internalize! I hope it gets easier over time 💜

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Chloe 🌹's avatar Chloe 🌹 @lunarweasel.bsky.social
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Yes, exactly! If your friends *want* to help, why not let them? 💞

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Cat Girl Zoey's avatar Cat Girl Zoey @xomz.bsky.social
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🫂💙

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Jasmine Best's avatar Jasmine Best @jasminergb.bsky.social
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Yeah 💖 Similarly, I love it so much when people feel comfortable coming to me with something they're struggling with and even more when they ask directly for specific assistance... so why, when I know what I want or need, is it so difficult to ask for it? :/

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jamie quinn 🏳️‍⚧️'s avatar jamie quinn 🏳️‍⚧️ @threnody.bsky.social
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this is literally a conversation corinne and i have to have occasionally for both of our sakes. “oh right, i love being helpful. i go out of my way to be helpful and it makes me happy when someone says, ‘yes, please.’ right right.”

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