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Decolonial secular humanist and materialist. Autistic & ADHD. I got hit by a car end of 2020 and my hand doesn't work properly now. There is no absolute objective frame of reference. UK based she/her. DMs open. COVID kills. Wear a mask N95+


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Naturally, they didn’t get much media attention outside of the LGBT press, even though every fucking tweet JKR posts gets an article written about it. But you can help spread the word. Tell your friends:

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It's so annoying when people use social media to tell people that social media is terrible and you shouldn't care about any of it.

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Often feels like the driver of that attitude is the desire for immunity from criticism. Some people thought they had that before social media and they really really want it back.

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I can't see much evidence of internal push back at all. They've been working very hard to get rid of anyone who is willing to do that.

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I don't think this example falls into that category. It is possible. But she didn't do it. She just straight up admires them.

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People have made that argument. But it is a shitty argument. Nazi rhetoric is wrong.

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It's so annoying when people use social media to tell people that social media is terrible and you shouldn't care about any of it.

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The best news from last night 😍 (This is our older cat Port tolerating Jadzia sitting right next to her for the first time)

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Good intentions do not prevent harm from resulting from your actions. But it feels really nice to be able to assume they must. It makes everything so simple.

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The anger is that they didn't vote for either of the establishment approved options.

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Got blocked by the OP of the thread I think you're talking about for liking some of the replies. Hadn't even said anything. Managed to unfollow before that happened though.

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They will grant you the chance to be treated as a person if you are willing to be educated aren't they kind 😭🫠

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It's a product of desperation to find a morally valid chain of reasoning to excuse ignoring this I think.

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Good intentions do not prevent harm from resulting from your actions. But it feels really nice to be able to assume they must. It makes everything so simple.

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I agree with your underlying point I think, I just wanted to reframe it a bit.

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Some people are saying they suck and do have a useful critical analysis. Some people are just trying to insist that everything they like is inherently Good and everything they don't like is inherently Bad.

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I don't think just saying they suck is a useful critical analysis. But I do like useful critical analysis.

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I feel like Westminster in general wrote off Northern Ireland years ago as a price worth paying for the Brexit they want.

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Yes. As if we must have made a mistake and will appreciate being corrected once we understand.

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I just. The work of showing people how ableism is real and how their "everyday harmless status quo normal" beliefs and attitudes and behaviors are actually harmful can be like pulling teeth. Ableism is /so/ foundational. Folks will just straight-faced be like "but that /does/ make someone lesser."

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I think it is reduced to a purely emotional thing because that's easier to reject and ignore. And that's also a product of ableism/rationalism.

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You think people on benefits shouldn't be allowed to use social media? That's super fucked up.

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Yes butt to butt lol. Port hissed a bit when Jadzia first sat down cos she was sitting on her slightly.

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I'm sure people struggling with self blame will feel better after being told it's all their fault 😭

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Yes very much so. Rejecting the idea of objectivity was essential for my mental health recovery because it allowed me to reframe my narrative. But that has become very isolating when so many depend on the illusion of it.

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I find it really odd when people say they have made no assumptions but it seems to happen a lot (not saying you have done this here, just a tangential thought)

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I think we always need to make assumptions, but we should also try to always be aware of the fact we are doing so and be ready to change them if they're contradicted.

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They are using a definition of extremism based on norm violation more than anything else.

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It makes little sense to talk about repression of protest, counterterrorism, and immigration/border control as separate policy areas. They're all part of the same white supremacist continuum.

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There's no divine dictionary floating in the aether. There's just people. Every time we try and build the tower it crushes part of us beneath it.

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Understanding the reasons for something doesn't have to mean excusing it. It can also mean learning how to fight it. We can choose which one we do.

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I don't want to be a Serious Adult. I want to be a human being.

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Telling people they are too inflexible isn't understanding their perspective. It is rejecting it as inferior and unreasonable.

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I turned down the other cushion on my sofa when I had my arm in a cast and needed to keep it elevated but the cats liked it so much it's become a permanent feature hehe.

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The best news from last night 😍 (This is our older cat Port tolerating Jadzia sitting right next to her for the first time)

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He did get a higher vote share than Starmer. But he never won as many seats.

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Why did you ask the question if you weren't interested in answers?

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Binaries make for more comforting and simple narratives yes. But you have to collapse the context to use them.

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Elections aren't binary choices, I don't think it helps to push the idea that they are. Especially seeing how toxic that is in the US.

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And assuming anyone who does see it as an issue needs to be educated cos they just don't understand 🙄

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It is the left they are scared of more than him personally. But he has been the most popular left wing leader in the UK for a long time.

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