The absolute wild hypocrisy of people wanting a girl who has a developed career and all that but also want her to drop all that immediately to date them, and if you don’t you aren’t serious or intentional is my villain origin story
You can’t ask for a fully developed human and then cut them in half
This is an intentional tactic for abusers & narcissists. It feeds their ego to destroy a person. It's also why they will absolutely lose their shit 250% when you decide you've had enough and leave them. #beentheredonethatthrewawaythetshirt
We aren’t here to grow and create a whole life until we meet you, and then that has to stop then and there so we can prioritize something so very new that may or may not work out
I get the feeling that being able to completely destroy someone's life and prospects so they become your property is part of the allure for these guys/what they feel entitled to, it's a power ploy