*tapping the sign*
Because of a particular moderation list people are using that is labeling anything fat/chubby as a kink.
I can exist without being reduced to kink fodder, same with art of my sona.
Would be nice to know which moderation list that is, so that if I have a subscription to it I can disable it.
Friends show up in all shapes and sizes, and I don't want something I didn't know about or didn't think of to be limiting what I see.
This makes me sick. Kink stuff gave me a place to take control of my body. This feels like I'm being sexualized for no other reason than to demonize kink and demonize fat people. Average bodied people get to be sexy when they want, fat is not inherently risque.
It's funny because like, even if you do have a fat fetish that doesn't mean your belly is ALWAYS going to be for sex reasons. It's not like it's something you can just take off, it is physically attached to you.
Creating an entire moderation system to apply labels to people like fucking e6’s “tag what you see” garbage is so far beyond shitting yourself in public that it is firmly in sobbing on the ground in a pool of your own diarrhea in the middle of a busy down town intersection territory.
This does make me think of a particular artist who draws a lot of fat fur stuff but has far-right leanings. If they're on here, this would affect their engagement, I gather; you can never be 'good enough' to certain people, because the mere act of existing is the unforgivable offense.
This is my irl fucking body. I’m ok with people finding me attractive, obviously. But i certainly don’t enjoy being reduced to kink fodder either. I just exist that way 😭