This is as true in architecture/ retrofit/urban design as it is in any other industry.
The tell on your character and decency is not that you were deceived.
The tell is what you do when the deception is revealed.
(Though often things also hide in plain sight - you just need to look).
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I think all the time about the interviewer who asked Meryl Streep “how did you not know about Weinstein” and she was like “I didn’t know because he NEEDED me not to know”
it isn’t a character flaw to have been deceived by someone who is a deceit expert cultivating the cover of your faith & goodwill
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Caroline Framke wrote this seven years ago and it’s phenomenal. And I wish I could say it’s meaningfully less necessary than the day it was published in 2017. @carolineframke.bsky.social
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It’s a terrifying thing to know, and once you know it, you unfortunately cannot un-know it
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Every time Zaslav opens his mouth, without fail
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Indeed!
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NB: narcissists/systematic abusers usually have a consistent internal narrative: they are oppressed & misunderstood & they are a good person. So they do good things for people sometimes & they charm, to buff up a fragile ego & reinforce this story to themselves & world: they are One of the Good Ones
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I was just saying to a friend, someone who was horrified by a prominent person’s wretched behavior (but this individual was fine/good to my friend)—I said, “never forget, these people choose the targets of their generosity & goodwill & appreciation as carefully as they choose their abuse targets.”
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If you don't wanna talk so much about racism you have to fix the racism.
Doing another racism does not make it go away??????
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This is why you need a union, folks. $3 million in forced work.
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Undoubtedly
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Courtney Milan's upcoming "The Earl Who Isn't" is currently #174 in Victorian Historical Romance in the Kindle store but what if we annoyed racists by making it #1
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Totally hear all that. I am not a purist about native plants (in part because Hawk Moths LOVE lantana etc & I love those critters a LOT). I love seeing a lot of diff bees & they do love Midwest natives but lots of other stuff too! So many different kinds of bees in my yard and they're all so cool!
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This is the secret room where all the takes are coming from
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"My Dinner with Alan," the documentary where @mattzollerseitz.bsky.social & I yak about The Sopranos while seated in Tony's booth at Holsten's, is apparently now streaming on Tubi:
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wowwwww what did I do to penguin to be attacked like this
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"Being a brilliant writer does not elevate one above the common smallness of being a person."
Brandon Taylor on Alice Munro is a must read
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This is one the parts that makes me scream the loudest—even if you are deeply capitalism-pilled, the guy is disaster. The only person that this is working out great for is Zaslav, who’s made $1 billion+ off of tanking media companies for more than a decade.
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A huge huge part of my gardening philosophy is attracting beneficial pollinators, I love all the many many kinds of bees in my garden, they are the best! Learning more about them never gets old 💚🙌🏻
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WBD's stock price has tanked ~78% since David Zaslav was announced as CEO— $32.68 on 05/19/21 to $7.32, today— to say nothing of the brand loyalty, goodwill, & creative talent he's destroyed.
It is amazing & genuinely horrifying that anyone could fail this badly, & remain in a position of authority
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I took a beekeeping class and I’m not going to keep bees, but basically the takeaway was “bees are even more fucking awesome than you thought!” it was delightful
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I have never had any ability to or interest in writing horror. UNTIL NOW
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I think you misspelled “content “
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remember when studio heads actually liked and made movies
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YMMV, but, for my money, if you're going to pick a fight with a third party in someone else's mentions, here's a tip: Don't. Do not do that. Simply do something— truly anything— else.
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New rule of n'etiquette: If you and one or more people are going to continue to yell at each other over something completely ancillary to the main point of what the original poster was trying to say, take it the fuck out of their mentions.
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all we can do is continue to evolve and change our behavior upon receiving new information
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I was just saying to a friend, someone who was horrified by a prominent person’s wretched behavior (but this individual was fine/good to my friend)—I said, “never forget, these people choose the targets of their generosity & goodwill & appreciation as carefully as they choose their abuse targets.”
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This is how they do it, this is always how they do it.
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As @zitron.bsky.social points out regularly in his excellent newsletter, the only thing that grows forever is a cancer. Maybe we should not emulate that, when it comes to every aspect of tech/our economy? Just a thought!
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The lesson seems to be that killing the golden goose is great, as long as you get enough meat off the bone before it rots. Waiting for golden eggs is for chumps, and there's always another goose to buy and kill. Or multiple geese to mash together into a misshapen lump, and then killing that.
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Nope! Number go up, get paid millions/hundreds of millions, move on to the next entity to loot, that’s all that’s in the ol noggin (if anything)
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I am going to hunt down all those who killed Classic Era CW (tm) because I miss listening to excellent pop music while ghosts and/or zombies and/or witches fight princesses and/or crime lords and/or heroic mutants, all of whom are flirting and have relatable emotional dilemmas & perfect cheekbones
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I swear to God, I was listening to Chappell Roan today and I thought, this music would massively SLAY on multiple episodes of Reign and/or 7-8 other CW shows
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I know it’s late but here’s how Michael Dukakis could still win
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Rep. Alexandria Ocasio-Cortez has introduced impeachment articles against Supreme Court Justices Clarence Thomas and Samuel Alito
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Social media is where marginalized people can build community and anyone who undervalues that has never been the only ______ in a crowded room.
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Lately, when he's feeling energetic, my husband will say he is "full of bees." I told him that the saying is "full of beans," but according to him, that doesn't make sense.
Just now he is attempting to do a task he's put off for a year because he "has the bees" to do it.
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Yeahhhhh I remember
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