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Hey! Monster Boy

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I think people in general need to understand that consent is "Yes! I want to do this with you!" -- and that consent is NOT "OK, fine" after however much haranguing, whining, badgering, and pleading. Just because you can wear somebody down doesn't mean that what you're doing is actually consensual.

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Kye Fox's avatar Kye Fox @kyefox.com
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[Yes] [Not now]

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Chaos Gremlin's avatar Chaos Gremlin @shadowdragon.bsky.social
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Enthusiastic consent IS MANDATORY

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Mikos Snep >> Anthroweekend Utah's avatar Mikos Snep >> Anthroweekend Utah @mikos.bsky.social
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This... so much this. The only consent I accept is a partner scrambling to get into my pants.

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Frankie Huang 黄碧赤 's avatar Frankie Huang 黄碧赤 @ourobororoboruo.bsky.social
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Enthusiastic consent is the hottest thing in the world

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Hey! Monster Boy's avatar Hey! Monster Boy @heymonsterboy.bsky.social
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Soft No's are easily ignored and the excuse is often "Well just say NO if you don't want to do something!" -- The requirement, though, is that if you claim you want a direct No, you have to ACCEPT that direct No without freezing the person out or otherwise punishing them in response. DO BETTER

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Dee, but not THAT Dee, the other one.'s avatar Dee, but not THAT Dee, the other one. @deetoriadee.bsky.social
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Absolutely, yes! I am someone who is guilty of this years ago. I thought I was "going for it like a boss" but, looking back on it, that's what I did to him. I apologized to him a few yrs after when I realized what I had done. He said he was flattered that a hot woman would pursue him like that.

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