The adjacent principle, that you can just not like people even if they're not oppressive or predatory, has come up, and I think they're both really important. It's fine to wish someone well and not care about their kids or their car or whatever...
...and it's even fine to think that Russell from accounting is a grating know-it-all who should eat a hornet, even if he's not A Bad Person (tm). You don't have to construct an entire narrative to justify "ugh, *them*?"
And I am just… I’m never going to have a good time at a party, like the conventional kind, because I don’t do social substances anymore and my sensory sensitivities absolutely make it miserable, and also I prefer one on one interactions