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Jess

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Used to be a boy but I got much better. Typically unhinged trans woman who tends to dress like Janet from the Good Place if given licence. Does stand up sometimes (she/her/they/them/probably)


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Lately people have been asking me if "...something has changed?" with implication and gravity and I couldn't see it (I can guess what they were sort of asking). After seeing this I can kind of see why I have been asked 🥹

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It is exceptionally believable

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Oh my God you haven't made that up have you?

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The inside out characters in my head

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I think I speak for an awful lot of the trans community when I say Streeting does not inspire confidence in us. Also hey Bee, haven't you since everyone left Twitter 😊 I haven't been here much.

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Today I think was probably the most me I have ever felt, I can see "her" clearly when I see myself, which is something usually only other people get a clear view of. It's lovely, I don't think I've ever really got more than glimpses until today.

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We had two trans (and one non-binary) artists in the cast and crew of All You Need Is Death. You can support trans artists by employing them, as well as by buying their work.

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It's quite possible most of my recycling is all over the area, the recycling bins were halfway up the road and they seem to have been attacking local cars but no sign of the contents?

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This happens since transition, in ways it never used to but never has it been delivered with such pure scandalous glee as it was today. It was magic and somehow felt really Christmassy ☺️

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A girl I know a bit but am just starting to become chummy with excitedly dragged me away when we saw each other today to privately share news and gossip in general. I suddenly deeply felt how differently I am perceived by some people now.

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I honestly think he did it to separate the giant alliance of left leaning, progressively minded individuals who kicked fuck out of him when ever he said a stupid. So many online friendships of mine are still there but I barely see them. We all bolted for a different life boat 😔

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Or someone near the top likes you and will elevate you until they need you to do something which compromises yourself in some way so you refuse, and they try to emotionally blackmail you because they helped you and when wou won't they character assassinate you

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A Bridge Too Far Big Great Escape energy! An astonishing cast of mostly dead legends dying, as it turns out, pretty pointlessly in one of WW2's bigger allied disasters. Barely a woman in site too. Still not a bad show despite all that. Not very Christmassy though weird choice ITV

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Super Mario Bros Despite Chris 'the' Pratt voicing Mario this was great. Just silly fun. Jack Black's Bowser singing was the highlight for me.

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Do you know how happy you can make a trans acquaintance just by trying with pronouns and celebrating a name change. A beautiful gift you can give any day of the year!

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You know who you are. I am now your sister, or your aunt, or your mom, or your niece. I'm sorry these days are so emotionally draining, but I'm proud of you for powering through. Look at you!! You're living!! Despite everything, you're rising above it, you awesome fucking rebel you

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Posts like this get you a follow. Have a wonderful Christmas today 💛✊

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Out of Sight Prison escapee falls for US Marshall caper. The Clooney and Lopez chemistry is excellent, a tight script and an out of nowhere a surprise Michael Keaton appearance push this up to being very good. The whole cast is in pretty amazing to be honest.

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This exemplifies why I think the transition from having personnel departments to human resources teams was a key part of the downfall of humanity. It may only be semantics from a certain point of view but words mean things. And these words mean people are something to be used for the company.

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Midwives are some of the most incredible people I have even met or worked with, they are unusually warm, encouraging and kind as a rule, until they need to focus, and then a switch is flicked and they enter professionalism mode and you can see they are going to move mountains any second.

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I could really get on board with the rebrand to the Womandolorian (I am so sorry, I couldn't help myself)

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Elf Never seen it before, very silly, quite fun, I mainly stuck around for James Caan. This scene delighted me

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Alien A great example of what often happens when you don't listen to the smartest woman in the room

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The Wicker Man (The good one) Do we focus on the folk music (of very variable quality), the director's attempt to undermine it with silly smut thinking it's erotica or that Ewar Woowar's character is such a prick you want him sacrificed to the old gods?

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Shawshank Redemption Accidentally watched half of it when I should have gone to bed the other night. It's still pretty perfect and everyone gets what they deserve (Except his wife and the old lad and his mate who got shot)

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Films and other shite I watched over the Christmas holidays! A thread (I finished work today, it's allowed)

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Ah the 'plenty more where you came from attitude' of TV and film is still going strong despite the fact there really aren't plenty more any more

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Your annual reminder Elton John wrote a Christmas song for the Billie Elliot Musical called 'Merry Christmas Maggie Thatcher’ wishing death on Thatcher and various other Tories in the chorus, it's pretty great.

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All families are completely normal and sane when talking to each other in front of people and the rest of the time are friendly unreasonable psychooaths

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Unsurprisingly, while watching 'Being Kae Tempest', when they spoke about their childhood and letting go of being "a little boy" at the onset puberty I burst into tears.

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So I went out on a big silly night out and got all dressed up fancy in a new outfit and looked dead pretty and had a magic time and here I am this morning with no photos EVERY TIME! 🤦🏼‍♀️

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It's almost like she actually WANTS to be visited by Home Secretary's of Christmas Past, Present and Future this year

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Little things go a very long way. Tiny steps, lead to more and more steps. And then they get bigger It's scary and tricky but there are a lot more of us around than there were now. That helps a lot

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Just in case you don't have many gals your own age on this side of the water. The timezones make friends over there harder to maintain

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We may have quite a bit in common you know, I feel like I'm a little ahead of you in terms of milestones but I recognize where you are very well. I'm from England too, but live away, and worked this out (Allowed myself to see why I had always been fairly 'troubled') quite late on (Mid 40s).

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So if and when you get the chance, get them done. Appreciate it may not be as simple as that. Just wanted you to know earrings are more awesome than I ever expected. Pretty nails were another one too.

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Emily love, I don't know how you feel about piercings but I didn't think getting my ears pierced would really mean much to me. Turns out, the sleepers made me feel affirmed, actual dangly earrings after the sleepers made me feel like someone else, which was exactly what I wanted and needed ☺️

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The illegal part heavily implies they should probably be on that already

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"Wealth inequality" is too dainty a term. Next time some exec pays himself 4000 times what his average employee makes, let's just call it what it is: EMBEZZLEMENT.

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I was asked before I had even considered the question and "Jessie" simply came out and I have never once felt it wasn't perfect

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Leona darling, I appreciate you trying to be careful with the language used, it is very kind of you. I adore you a little bit for it in fact, but I promise I am not one to jump on little habitual linguistic artifacts that crop up. I occasionally misname myself, it happens love. But thank you 💛

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I am very fond of it, It was my Nan's name, it sort of picked me rather than the other way around. And yeah, you nailed it with the old name. I tried to do a lot of good work for the brand lads, treat it with some respect.

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Jess is so frequent I barely notice it any more. I do quietly judge and dislike anyone I meet who I deem to be abusing my old pre-transition name. Those poor guys are held to a higher standard and don't even get a warning.

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It feels like it's trying to capture that same energy but all the characters aren't as smart as they used to be

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I made it through half an episode and bailed as the energy was all wrong,. Really sad though as the first three series were occasionally perfect.

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