"I cannot overstate how little he wanted to talk about it"
yeah because he's not a freak, imagine just being there living your life and suddenly Joanne's in your face screaming a pop quiz at you about "penised women"
so what's her point? that many cis men have CD / role reversal fantasies? that many cis women do too?
Like I kind of feel that if JK were in a room with 100 women, most of those women would say something to the effect of "yeah so what? you seem to be the only one really bothered by this, Joanne."