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Raven Oak

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The issue here is that she says she didn't consent "at first." Also, she was 18?19? to his 60. He solicited her on the FIRST day of her employment. He's also hugely famous. How in the world would anyone feel comfortable saying no to him? Power differentials mean that consent can't happen.

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Erinn O'Dear's avatar Erinn O'Dear @erinnthered.bsky.social
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Again, I'm not referring to just his incident. These accusers say they did not consent. She was 20, iirc. I'm saying we shouldn't say blanketly that a power differential between adults means SA. That in and of itself is not something that makes it SA. It can only be a supporting factor.

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Raven Oak's avatar Raven Oak @ravenoak.bsky.social
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It doesn't matter that she was technically legal. He was her boss. He had power over her. He had age, experience, and fame that she did not. She was desperate for money (hence why she took the nanny job according to her). There is no world in which he should have done this, even if she said yes.

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