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i am also not okay with the way people seem to play detective by hunting for clues that somehow should've told us this person was abusive. a lot of abusers get away with what they do because they are good at covering it up. it doesn't help victims to pretend that there are always signs.

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simone's avatar simone @simonee.bsky.social
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like i'm sorry but sometimes you are going to have to live with the guilt of not knowing! sometimes you are going to have to deal with the fact that had previously thought well of them before you found out they were an abuser!

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Bible Blackbelt 's avatar Bible Blackbelt @estrusflask.bsky.social
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I think that the most obvious sign of being an abuser is being someone in a position of power or authority.

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🏳️‍⚧️ The Josie Zone's avatar 🏳️‍⚧️ The Josie Zone @josie.zone
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Absolutely agree

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