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TiaraLA Should Be Writing

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Disabled urban fantasy writer. (ADLD Leukodystrophy). Graphic Designer. Professional Handmade Stuff-Maker. Unapologetic Pedant. True Princess of Alderaan. Queer enough. Probably procrastinating. She/Her.


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I’m hopeful that means we’re almost done with it flooding every feed. I believe the accusations; I’m also tired of hearing about it and it makes me sad.

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FML everything hurts and I’m dying dot gif.

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go into your photo roll or whatever and post the first image that makes you laugh literally out loud

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We’ve got like ONE GUY I think. It’s maddening.

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Happy Canada Day btw 🤗🇨🇦

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My first thought tbh

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It sounds like my neighborhood is being bombed right now. Why are people flowing off huge fireworks at 4pm on July 1?

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We're electing an administration, not just a dude. There is no fucking alternative.

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It's enough that I finished my ToDo list on Toggl.Plan for the week tonight. Starting this week off with all major projects/invoices checked off and a detailed but fluid way to tackle creative projects with self-imposed deadlines. I'm excited to see if/how well it works. 🤞

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Yep, and that's why the other stuff I took in the '90s worked so well for controlling my ADHD at the time, so it wasn't until years after I stopped them I realized why I needed *something* in the first place in order to thrive.

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I had a “term paper blend” which was powdered instant cappuccino mixed into coffee instead of water that helped me focus on big projects. How I survived college while working full time without a heart attack is a mystery.

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In high school I had ephedrine and trucker speed. In college I had a Sudafed and no-doz cocktail. After that it was the diet pills my doc gave me. Swearing off diet pills made my ADHD diagnosable.

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It’s scary to see some Leone I love in this position. I’m hopeful we can make a difference, and mostly that she accepts our help.

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I bought a cute little Orange 🍊 amp that is way too much amp for me. This reminds me to schedule some practice time again.

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Tomorrow my girlfriends and I are attempting an intervention to free another friend from her abusive deadbeat boyfriend. It was supposed to be a girls night out to talk about it options but things escalated and turned physical last night. Now shit is getting real. No idea what the day will bring.

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Any friends know of senior copywriter/ACD remote jobs with your organization? My bestie is about to lose her unemployment benefits after a 6-month string of being second choice. Need to find a cavalry to send in.

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It’s been awhile since I’ve had a bad pain flare and tonight’s a doozy. I have a list of things people are counting on me for and I feel betrayed by my body.

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Sometimes I impress myself. Red curry shrimp with jasmine rice. I’m so happy to be cooking again after traveling.

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Look I cannot recommend a better way to improve your life than going to the local animal shelter and asking, “what is the nicest cat you have” and then adopting them, especially if they are plain and old

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Why is leaving the house so difficult

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Applied for my first true craft fair booth that I’m sharing with a friend. I finally have something to work toward! Fingers crossed it’s as motivating as I hope it’ll be.

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I found out this weekend that a favorite EBM band is fronted by a horrifying bigot, and I was all about defending Grohl until this information. It has not been a feel-good weekend from this angle. It would be one thing if he'd had a public epiphany but it's all just so under-rug-swept. Icky.

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Not even a little. I really enjoyed his memoir and now I'm big mad.

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Ashley Lynch ✂️🎞️'s avatar Ashley Lynch ✂️🎞️ @ashleylynch.bsky.social
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David Simon is GOAT.

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I don’t know who needs to hear this (cough economists) but living with illness and disability is not a choice between labour, leisure, and benefits.

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Ooooh good one! Wordle 1,099 3/6* 🟨⬛⬛⬛🟨 🟩⬛🟨⬛⬛ 🟩🟩🟩🟩🟩

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I KNOW. I think he found it on Amazon. I am so happy.

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My husband got me a plush Morris (the faceless winged bunny thing) from Shang-Chi and its proximity is improving every stressful thing about today.

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Omg why is this still happening. I’m so sorry.

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Notified at reception that insurance hasn’t approved my MRIs (yet?)and I’m supposed to get THREE today so now I’m in limbo. FANTASTIC. This couldn’t have been addressed before I made the drive? Or any time in the month since I made the appointment.

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Going in for a new MRI to track the progression of my disease over the last two years. Nervous, though there’s zero I can do about any of it. I’ll probably be anxious until I get the results on Monday or so anyway.

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Oh gosh, why am I so upset about this?

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For me it took finding a book that reminded me why I love books. Once you get an unputdownable read priorities change!

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These and honestly the “this is your brain on drugs” were SOOOO memorable and effective.

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The lengths they’re going to making excuses their discomfort with being attracted to a fat woman is deeply weird. I’m big fat and friends and especially family cannot handle me calling myself fat. It’s really annoying.

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I am annoyed at the number of people insisting Nicola Coughlin isn’t fat. No, you mean you find her attractive. She IS very attractive— and fat. Small fat, but still fat. It’s not an insult, it’s a body type.

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Ooooh looks like Chicago has one tooooo. I need to get in on this.

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I’m sorry CRAFT SPECIFIC reuse store???

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My pants today are super cute but they have FAKE POCKETS and it is maddening!!

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Oh cool! I hope you love it!!

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Are y’all in Chicago??

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I have so many friends who are dead broke and spend SO much money on new books (adding to a massive TBR pile), but the second you bring up the library they suddenly Could Neverwith a boring counter for every argument. It’s maddening.

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I would *LOVE* to just sell direct from my Shopify store, but I just can't seem to get traffic. This should've been a big boost but now I'm just upset.

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I'm trying to keep my head up about the order being a good thing because it's traction and I need traction, but this just really sucks.

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Yay! I just sold 3 items in one sale on my Etsy shop! BUT. Etsy added some sort of "spend $X get free shipping" deal on my page. My prices are not adjusted for that. I did not agree to this. This order is costing me $10 to fulfill because the free shipping ate up my entire profit and then some.

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Spending another day running graphics and video for a virtual corporate training. I really love this part of my job and I hope things are on the upswing after a year of sloooooow. Send me happy, employed vibes if you can spare them.

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I just went to the Prado in Madrid on Friday so this is a resounding YES actually

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I’ve been considering unloading our pinball machine with a corroded board rather than repairing it. It’s so hard. I love it when we play it and at parties but oh man could I use the cash.

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Gods help me from women in my medical support communities. "My disease is progressing. Maybe it's all these medications I'm on." No, honey. It's because you have a progressive illness. Your disease progresses because you have a progressive illness, not because you're taking meds to help symptoms.

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