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For Slate today I wrote about the urgency and importance of seeing Nex's transmasculinity at a time when all the mainstream seems to speak about are "lost daughters" and "troubled girls. Nex Benedict was transmasculine. Like me. Please. Let him be visible now that he's dead.

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🏳️‍⚧️🔞Bunny Bismuth: Bun To Be Wild🔞🏳️‍⚧️'s avatar 🏳️‍⚧️🔞Bunny Bismuth: Bun To Be Wild🔞🏳️‍⚧️ @bunny.bismuth.gay
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Didn't Nex use they/them?

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Val Syverson's avatar Val Syverson @vjpsyverson.bsky.social
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yeah this hurts to read

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New Amauta's avatar New Amauta @newamauta.bsky.social
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Don't forget that Nex was also Choctaw Native mourned by both the Choctaw and Cherokee nations. His death shows the intersection of trans and Native identity, and the danger that comes with them

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Fishyonekenobi 's avatar Fishyonekenobi @fishyonekenobi.bsky.social
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The coverup of the crime is ongoing. HE was damaged by being beat up. But they’re saying natural causes. Well then I guess bullying and violence is a “natural cause”.

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Lettuce Ophelia Violet Electra's avatar Lettuce Ophelia Violet Electra @latisserande.bsky.social
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I'm so grateful for you writing this piece

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Eustaciavye77's avatar Eustaciavye77 @eustaciavye77.bsky.social
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This is beautifully written and so important. Thank you for putting this out into the world. This is a personal tragedy for Nex and his loved ones, and a community tragedy that our society is so determined to punish people for exploration and self-actualization.

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LIMBisches System 🍉's avatar LIMBisches System 🍉 @limbischessystem.bsky.social
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🌹🙏🏻⭐️

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Matti's avatar Matti @mrbtx.bsky.social
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this is great writing, evan

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Shenzi  the hyena's avatar Shenzi the hyena @stitchlover.bsky.social
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thats sad

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Condor's avatar Condor @condor.bsky.social
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This is wonderfully written and thoughtful thank you.

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O’fan's avatar O’fan @omensfan.bsky.social
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I am a mom of a trans guy. And I know others - they definitely seem to not be as much part of the conversation though given the conversation maybe that is just as well…

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Snoodge's avatar Snoodge @snoodge3000.bsky.social
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They did use they/them, please respect that. They definitely aired on the masculine side but that was not representative of their pronouns.

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Duke The Wolf 🇺🇦🇵🇸's avatar Duke The Wolf 🇺🇦🇵🇸 @dukewolf.bsky.social
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Yikes it's a tragedy unfolding

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NR🫀's avatar NR🫀 @nerirubeedo.bsky.social
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It means a lot that there was an observation of the way Nex carried himself, as a means of honoring his memory. The point about the disconnect between one's self-perception vs. what others subconsciously gravitate more, was a rather important one, and it stays with me. Frustrating experience.

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Plumloco (she/her)'s avatar Plumloco (she/her) @plumloco.bsky.social
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Heartbreaking.

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Nic 🍉's avatar Nic 🍉 @nml-dc.bsky.social
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Thank you for this. 💜💜 I have nothing eloquent to say to people who want to continue to misgender Nex in death, and all trans people in life, and "you're a piece of shit" doesn't exactly add to the conversation. I am still so angry.

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Commodore Jeep-Eep's avatar Commodore Jeep-Eep @commodorejeepeep.bsky.social
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Oh my brother, I wish I could have protected you. Protect our brothers. 😭

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minxmarx's avatar minxmarx @minxmarx.bsky.social
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The parents mourning "lost daughters" are lost parents.

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Eileen Popp.'s avatar Eileen Popp. @epopp.bsky.social
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💕💞💗💖thank you..

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