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Nic πŸ‰

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Former sociologist, lawyer, AIDS activist, and union organizer. Queer parent managing variable disability. Still punk AF. πŸ–€ they/she


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Holy wow. Like, I suspected that people did this, but to have it be so blatant. To be out there unmasked in groups, covid positive but not telling anyone. Super shitty behavior.

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I guess I'm unclear on whether PEM is unique to ME (like if you have PEM you have ME) or if that's only one kind of postviral condition. I definitely have a ton of ME symptoms and I'm not avoiding the label, I just haven't gotten to that stage of diagnosis yet with how things have progressed for me.

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I don't have an ME diagnosis, so that's why I don't call it that. It took a while to disentangle things, so I may now pursue a diagnosis.

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John Wiswell's avatar John Wiswell @wiswell.bsky.social
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Gentle reminder to all the protagonists out there to release the breath you don't know you're holding.

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So uh... anybody with a bigger megaphone than me want to help a butch out? The Gilbert Baker Foundation & CMG are asking a settlement from us for referring to the Gilbert Baker flag/original color scheme as the "Gilbert Baker flag" of twice what we've ever made from anything with those colors.

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Yes, I was! It took us a long time to understand that I didn't just get sick and worsen my EDS and POTS but also gained a postviral condition that did worsen those and came with PEM (and MCAS yayyyy). It took a long time to get internally stable, with my structure now the weakest aspect.

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Yeah, I get badly brain fatigued now and it's so unpredictable.

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The way that people read this monarchist slant into it was also wild. She was saying, "FYI, you don't say Mr. President Biden, it's one or the other and not in that order," and people were like we fought a war to not have to pay attention to how you address people! πŸ˜‚

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I'm in what sounds like a nearly identical situation with needing to do core stabilizing exercises for my EDS and dealing with bad POTS the past few years, trying not to trigger PEM reactions. It's complicated and hard. πŸ«‚

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It's ME(Jaime)'s avatar It's ME(Jaime) @exceedhergrasp1.bsky.social
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"Pace myself up".

I know it's REALLY hard to grok, but pacing is not about increasing what you can do a little every day until you're back to normal. That's graded exercise therapy, and it does not work for people with PEM. πŸ§ͺ #MECFS #LongCOVID

Pacing is this: www.meaction.net/resource/pac...

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Okay, wow, I literally only knew the half of it! I thought you were amazingly collected when you hosted Sam, I would have been wrecked πŸ˜‚

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Also, you said that was in 2018 and now I need to lie down πŸ‘€

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Ahhh, I forgot about this!! It was so fun to watch it all unfold.

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My spouse has an uncle like that, I spent decades staying calm when he would say shit to try to rile me up at family gatherings, and then he went full on Oath Keepers and we just stopped being around him anymore. You're better off being left alone by people like that but it's still yuck. πŸ«‚

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People will say the wildest shit to you assuming you'll agree and I'm like, please do not try to make me your comrade in racism.

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Oh no! That really sucks.

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Right!! And it's going to be a fight, since Hogan made a huge stink of how Alsobrooks held the line with masks and remote school in PG County (which we were and are very grateful that she did). There's a reason we've never had a Black senator and the reason is a lot of Marylanders are hella racist.

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CHOAM Nomsky πŸ’­'s avatar CHOAM Nomsky πŸ’­ @thielman.bsky.social
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yes, we boiled the planet, but it was worth it to make a machine that, instead of adding two plus two, takes the statistical average of every answer to questions containing "what" "is" "two" and "plus" from a database of illegal cell phone transcripts and returns a fake nude pic of a high schooler

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Knowing that she's an editor, I read that entirely a la "per The Chicago Manual of Style format..." and it barely registered, but I saw that most people took it way differently.

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Yes! And an experienced editor which is why her books are also so tightly plotted and consistent on details.

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A second insurrection. Stop comparing these people to the founders. They are the Confederacy.

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Not getting that promised storm last night was brutal for the heat and humidity. I'm definitely postponing any calls and emails that I can.

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This weather is giving me a migraine.

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Wallace Shawn on Gaza: β€œThe Anger of the Palestinians Cannot Be Ended by Killing Their Children” The playwright, actor, and member of Jewish Voice for Peace challenges the notion that all Jews support Israel's actions Via THR

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DC! STAY INSIDE! πŸ₯΅

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New TWIBS! Assigned Media's @alyssaur.bsky.social writes for about Keir Starmer and the UK elections.

Says here the ascendent labor party and the defeat of the Tories in no ways spells relief for the battered and beleaguered transgender community of TERF Island.

Dang it!

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Ha, I do think about this one!

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Emissary Of Night | Ω„ΩŠΩ„Ω‰'s avatar Emissary Of Night | Ω„ΩŠΩ„Ω‰ @diplomatofnight.com
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By my count five Labour MPs lost seats tonight to people who capitalized on the discontent from Muslims / pro-Palestinian voters, otherwise known as a group that one Labour person called "fleas"

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All killer, no filler. 5 stars Margaret

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We’ve had the rule for how ever many years but I still click and watch the video every single time. Some days it can end up in my feed half a dozen times and I will still watch every time. It never gets old. I love it every single time I watch it

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"Lord, I see what you are doing for the Tories, and I want that for the GOP."

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So hey, here's a thing I don't think a lot of folks know: That whole "Patient Zero" thing? The French-Canadian airhost who supposedly spread HIV all over America? That's not real. That's not what happened or how it happened.

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I wish I had been bold enough to get some when I was younger; now my knowledge of how poorly my soft tissue heals makes it not a good idea. So I have to live vicariously! Luckily, there are still plenty of artsy punk and queer folks in my life.

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I look forward to seeing them (if you choose to share online). πŸ’œ

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I'm so grateful my dog isn't scared of fireworks or thunder, especially given how jumpy they make me.

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Can we make Tattoo Thursday a thing? Because I like seeing y'all's amazing variety of tattoos.

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That's a huge amount of money, good for her.

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putting handwashing into β€œcore” and masking into β€œadditional” even tho medical science fixed the error that led to thinking these aren’t airborne is one of those situations where i’m feeling gaslit by the rest of humanity: they are airborne! i’m not imagining this! i know you know this, cdc!

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Your Internet Friend Tom Tomorrow's avatar Your Internet Friend Tom Tomorrow @tomtomorrow.bsky.social
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"I already fed you, you cannot fool me with your lying cat ways." -- a thing I just said out loud.

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I referred to music on the stereo in the new car as "bumpin'" and my child had to prop themself up on a wall while they died laughing. To be fair, my spouse was also like "okay, Flava Flav."

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I added several words to the list! I respect that people are doing the things they are doing that they believe will help, but I simply cannot see exhortations to mail postcards to voters. Just, it's summer.

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She still looks so startled to be here. Which is relatable.

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Ooh, there's a new Farah Heron? I'm halfway through Sarina Bowen's recent thriller, that will pass a chunk of the time.

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They're not renewing it??? But it ended on a cliffhanger 😭

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It is supposed to finally rain for a few hours today, so I will take a few tomorrow when hopefully things will be a bit more perky. It's still very overgrown, I haven't been able to maintain it for a few years so we're slowly getting it back in order.

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