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cosima bee concordia@bimbotheory.bsky.social |
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writer
femme leatherdÿkefàg
co-host of Drunk Church
theory horror femme
Bataillean
prominently dreamy & chronically ill
pdx
(she/her)
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cosima bee concordia
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Instead of hiding my insanity in the fear that someone will stop liking me when I start a relationship, I just lay it all on the table from the jump and if they are there for it then I already know they’re keepers 💞
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cosima bee concordia
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Also almost everyone who starts polyamory is kind of annoying and cringe at the start—it’s a learning curve and passes for most I’d like to think 😮💨
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cosima bee concordia
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Yeah you def need to negotiate that first and breakup if someone doesn’t want it, going from pre-established monogamy to polyamory while preserving the relationship is a feat for anyone let alone emotionally stunted straight dudes lol
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cosima bee concordia
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Also, if you’re a year into dating a person monogamously and you decide you want to be poly, you either have to renegotiate the relationship with that person if they are into it or break up if they’re not! That’s just life I fear!!
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cosima bee concordia
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Like I’m a forever and maybe even after bitch when I’m in love, the polar opposite of whatever commitment-phobic is. But I also trust that love to be strong enough to sustain the people I love loving other people too!
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cosima bee concordia
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The implicit idea here is that having more than one love of your life is impossible, let alone several at once! I beg to disagree 🤷♀️
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cosima bee concordia
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I transitioned at 24 and I’m turning 32 later this month btw, being trans is a marathon not a sprint lol
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cosima bee concordia
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On the electrolysis schedule I’m on it looks like I’ll probably be getting bottom surgery at 33, the same year our Lord and Savior got her side wound pussy. #blessed
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cosima bee concordia
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Voting in electoral politics isn’t the problem—it’s that shaming people for not voting for a senile old man who has gone right on almost every issue and is openly facilitating a genocide bc the other guy is even worse is admitting this democracy thing you wanna protect is a joke.
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cosima bee concordia
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Like it’s kind of unfortunate we were so successful in making liberal a bad word because now all the liberals fight tooth and nail to not be thought of as liberals until the most annoying possible moment
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cosima bee concordia
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The liberals who were masquerading as leftists are really coming out of the closet now that they have the opportunity to shame us as being responsible for the fall of democracy if we don’t vote for the unelectable senile war criminal
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cosima bee concordia
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Taking a break from that main account and put it maybe permanently on private—if you’d like to stay in touch, follow my other accounts (which you can all find in the Insta bio)
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cosima bee concordia
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My post with this thread got taken down on Instagram for “child sexual exploitation” because I said “you can always try a little HRT as a treat” in a thread about adult gays—now I’m restricted to uselessness.
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cosima bee concordia
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Last but not least: doing gay stuff (gay sex, gay relationship, gay community) is always gonna be more meaningful than gay identity (gay flag in bio)
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cosima bee concordia
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Also remember that if you’re curious you can always try a little HRT as a treat 😉
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cosima bee concordia
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If someone is attracted to you and their sexuality feels delegitimizing to who you are, don’t date them! But someone else who has the same identity may be totally chill with it! People are weird, queerness is weird, go to a gay bar and meet people pretty plz
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cosima bee concordia
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People are generally not attracted to identities and the diversity of transness makes stuff blurry sometimes—it’s actually okay to identify how you identify and be attracted to who you’re attracted to and if those stop aligning switch it up if you want! Like it’s not that serious
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cosima bee concordia
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Amanda has been going crazy since the school year ended just driving a round and getting free stuff from Craigslist marketplace 💕
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cosima bee concordia
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Like it was actually really scary and sad! I have zero sympathy for Biden but if he wasn’t evil I’d say it was actually pretty fucked up to put him in that position for his welfare alone!!
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cosima bee concordia
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My grandma had sundowning syndrome the last few years of her life too—absolutely lovely lady, also was not a super competent decision maker during that time! And she wasn’t even a war criminal!!
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cosima bee concordia
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cosima bee concordia
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icon tbh
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cosima bee concordia
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Needed to tweet about pop stars real quick to distract myself from how consequential the last day or two have been in the unfolding fall of the empire 🫡
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cosima bee concordia
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So happy all of the normie queer girlies finally have someone to obsess over who is Not Evil 💝
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cosima bee concordia
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Been listening to Chappell Roan for the first time and pretty sure the reason she’s so popular is because she’s like an actually gay and confidently sexual Taylor Swift who is also not a monster billionaire (yet)? Genuinely a lot of fun!!
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cosima bee concordia
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Okay so apparently several more big accounts here were outed as sex pests and/or feds? Idk I don’t have the patience or care enough to piece it all together, but why is this place *like this* all the time lol
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cosima bee concordia
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I am not “fleeing” even if we descend into far worse horrors than where we already are—the idea that you can simply leave and go “back” when things get hard is exactly the settler colonial mindset! This is my home and I’m going to act like it.
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cosima bee concordia
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The last year has had me breaking mutuals with more people than the whole time I’ve been on the internet combined—people are obvi not dealing great with *the state of everything* and it’s bringing out some wiiiild parts of ourselves I never really expected, me included lol
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cosima bee concordia
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Like I think there is a luxury space communism version of reality where AI is used cautiously so that the average person can live a life of mostly making art or doing whatever they want to do, but we are not in that reality so it’s gonna rapidly bring the most comically stupid apocalypse instead
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cosima bee concordia
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Generally not a ban technology girlie but pretty sure if we don’t ban or at the very least dramatically restrict AI in the next couple of years things are gonna get baaaaad bad lol
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cosima bee concordia
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I did a lot of facial electrolysis back in the day out of pocket but def couldn’t afford it now, wild what a quality of life switch these little things are
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cosima bee concordia
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so apparently facial electrolysis is covered now and body contouring will be next year? on top of prepping for bottom surgery guess I’m back on my hardcore transition era that I put on pause right before the pandemic 🤷♀️
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cosima bee concordia
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Yes!! Like I’m gonna be a deranged romantic obsessively devoted to the dykes I love until the day I die and I dunno how I could possibly be any different!
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cosima bee concordia
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This also cuts the wheat from the chaff because I am always like this when I’m in love, if they can’t handle it from the start then we’re not gonna make it 🤷♀️
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cosima bee concordia
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When I really like someone it may seem like I’m love bombing them but that’s just me being really devoted and insane and is in fact totally authentic
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cosima bee concordia
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Like babe no matter how much you love them as characters or what minor good they do they’re laying competing claims to a dynasty and killing each other over tragic miscommunication / resentment, mowing over common people in the process. That’s like, the point of Martin’s fantasy in a nutshell lol
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cosima bee concordia
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Incredible to see the characters have taken to two main sides (the “Greens” or “Blacks”) and to have your response be “I must choose which one is *correct* and the other side is a moral failure—not just in the text but in real life”.
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cosima bee concordia
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I love that “House of the Dragon” is back so deranged stans who, failing to read it as a tragedy about power and trauma, treat the story as if it has an objective “good side” and a “bad side” and can continue to war with each other through unironic attempts at moral arguments 😌
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cosima bee concordia
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I have tried to be slutty in a normal way many times now and it never hits! Gotta embrace who I am lol
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cosima bee concordia
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I am slutty in the limitless devotion of a vampiric thrall for a few people sort of way
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cosima bee concordia
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Like I’m not leaving because this place still has a decent sized community, but the dream of it becoming something that can replace Twitter seems to have fully died
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cosima bee concordia
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Noticing people seem to be going back up on Twitter and Bluesky engagement has been dying over the last several months. It’s a bummer, I was rooting for literally-anything-but-Twitter so hard
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cosima bee concordia
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Yeah that’s what I’m saying—polyam is often portrayed as inherently anti-commitment, but this is not the case.
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cosima bee concordia
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I can definitely see how that may happen
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cosima bee concordia
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This isn’t to say monogamy is wrong or that polyamory is better or whatever, just that the idea polyamory is inherently more anti-commitment than monogamy doesn’t actually play out lots of the time 🤷♀️
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cosima bee concordia
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As a devotion-pilled non-monogamous girlie, my experience is that polyamory actually facilitates long lasting relationships in ways monogamy doesn’t—for instance, your partner falling for another person is always possible, but only in monogamy does it signal a necessary end.
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cosima bee concordia
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Saying I love you for the first time and having her say it back just hits like nothing else 🥰
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cosima bee concordia
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Basically I’m gay
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cosima bee concordia
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I’m like if a wife guy had three wives but wasn’t married and was also a woman
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cosima bee concordia
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It’s endlessly funny that cishet women tend to become the coolest possible versions of themselves when they get divorced whereas cishet men generally morph into the most profoundly horrible version of themselves.
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