"Kill your darlings" only applies if you're holding onto something that actually hurts your story. But jerks sometimes use "kill your darlings" as a weapon to try to break you. Don't wantonly kill what you love the most about your story. That's why you're writing it. Make it work.
Yes. To put it in a historical context, cavemen wouldn't indiscriminately kill their children. They loved their children! They would only kill Derrick, whose cries were attracting rabid angry mammoths and sabretooth tigers.
It has taken me years to get over someone who used to do that to me. I am finally making the stories I wanna make how I want to make them and readers are resonating with those stories.
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lately i’ve been seeing a ton of people *aggressively* failing to understand that “kill your darlings” is specifically about like.. that scene you really like that doesn’t actually add anything, ruins the flow, etc..
and sometimes you can’t keep *every* joke, even if they’re all funny!
This particularly applies if you're writing from your perspective as a member of an underrepresented community. Your "darlings" might be the fact that your characters are of your background. Don't let jerks make you change that for their comfort.
Thank you for saying this. I DETEST that advice, as much for its violence as for its common misinterpretation. I've seen too many writers pre-edit themselves because of it, and then never finish the work.
with me its usually an exchange that I had in my head since the beginning and there's never the right place to use it. Which is good, it means the story is progressing with purpose and not so random that this particular darling can make it in.
Audience side, but I was already on the fence about continuing to watch The Walking Dead after Glenn but when I saw the showrunner say 'at this point we're trying to break our fans' I was out. Why would I want characters suffering and dying for no actual reason? Give me relevant plot.
And if nothing about your story feels darling to you, you're writing the wrong story!
Good darling-killing is cutting the bits where you're trying to be a cleverpants. Those bits are often overstrained. But the bits that really mean something need to stay in.
So important to remember.
I also would like to add that sometimes constructive criticism is actually wrong. You don’t actually need to accept story notes if you don’t want to.