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Lilly Dancyger

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author of Negative Space and First Love, editor at Barrelhouse Books


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Catbus 's avatar Catbus @catbus.bsky.social
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you can't get more right than this RIP 👑

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I specifically put in the cover brainstorming doc I sent to my publisher, “nothing cutesy or cartoony” —can’t wait for that trend to die

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Mattilda B Sycamore's avatar Mattilda B Sycamore @mbsycamore.bsky.social
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Happy pub day to @lillydancyger.bsky.social!! Yes, I dare you to read FIRST LOVE without sobbing... This book surprises right from the beginning 🌷⚡🌷

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Lilly Dancyger's avatar Lilly Dancyger @lillydancyger.bsky.social
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Today’s the day! First Love: Essays on Friendship is now available wherever books are sold!!!

Thank you so much to everyone who has preordered, posted, & otherwise supported First Love along the way. Make sure to tell your friends you love them today 🧡

bit.ly/3WNe1Fx

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Rabbi Danya Ruttenberg 's avatar Rabbi Danya Ruttenberg @theradr.bsky.social
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OMG I'M SO SICK OF THIS DUDE WE LITERALLY PRESERVE DEBATE, DIVERGENT OPINIONS, CRITIQUE ON THE PAGE FOR CENTURIES WE LITERALLY HONOR THE PROCESS OF JEWS CRITIQUING JEWS OVER JEWISH MATTERS who the fuck is this non-Jew who thinks he can tell us what is & isn't antisemitism it's not this, my guy

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maura quint's avatar maura quint @mauraquint.bsky.social
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seems really cool that as a Jew I am now an anti-semite if a white nationalist christian fundamentalist says I am

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MisterJayEm's avatar MisterJayEm @misterjayem.bsky.social
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Reminder: Sure, the student protestors turned out to be right about Vietnam, and gay rights, and apartheid, and the Latin American dirty wars, and the invasion of Iraq -- but *this time* they are cluelessly naive and only protesting to look cool to their friends.

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Lilly Dancyger's avatar Lilly Dancyger @lillydancyger.bsky.social
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I wrote about reading a famous book with a famous ending, and how it made me think about the relationship between inevitability and hope in the creation (and experience) of narrative tension open.substack.com/pub/lillydan...

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Lilly Dancyger's avatar Lilly Dancyger @lillydancyger.bsky.social
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I wrote about Georgia O’Keeffe’s “compositional reduction” & the mental recalibration necessary to embark on the nit-picky, sentence-level stage of revision after looking the big picture of a writing project for so long you can’t see it clearly anymore: bit.ly/3Jqghup

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Lilly Dancyger's avatar Lilly Dancyger @lillydancyger.bsky.social
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every time this woman puts out a new album I have to learn all over again how many of my mutuals probably think "we are the daughters of the witches you couldn't burn" is brilliant poetry

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Lilly Dancyger's avatar Lilly Dancyger @lillydancyger.bsky.social
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Seems we're entering a new golden age of the scathing pan review, which I would be much more able to enjoy if I didn't have a book coming out in a month...

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Lilly Dancyger's avatar Lilly Dancyger @lillydancyger.bsky.social
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Running for president on the platform that it should always be salad *and* fries, not salad *or* fries

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Lilly Dancyger's avatar Lilly Dancyger @lillydancyger.bsky.social
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I hope it’s not like political campaigns where you give to one and then they all text you constantly and forever (truly rue the day I ever gave to an act blue campaign)

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Lilly Dancyger's avatar Lilly Dancyger @lillydancyger.bsky.social
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I’m suddenly being tagged in several fundraisers by people I don’t know and haven’t interacted with… is this a widespread bsky thing? What is happening? (I chip in on mutual aid things that come across my feed sometimes, when I can, but don’t want to get spammed…)

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Joseph Fink's avatar Joseph Fink @planetoffinks.bsky.social
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AI drive thrus secretly using people to do the orders, ChatGPT using contractors in poor countries to monitor and alter responses, the Amazon "just walk out" technology actually just contractors in India watching cameras. AI doesn't just not work. The whole thing is a fraud

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Moira Donegan's avatar Moira Donegan @moiradonegan.bsky.social
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“Is it technically fascism?” “Is it technically rape?” “Is it technically genocide?” Remarkable the smug ease with which so many people have replaced moral inquiries with semantic ones.

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Lilly Dancyger's avatar Lilly Dancyger @lillydancyger.bsky.social
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I'm 600 pages into Anna Karenina and Anna is talking about how happy she is in her new life... surely the remaining 200 pages will coast along on this high note?

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Lilly Dancyger's avatar Lilly Dancyger @lillydancyger.bsky.social
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every month when I pay the large copay for my migraine preventative I think about how fucked up it is that I essentially rent a lack of pain

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Lilly Dancyger's avatar Lilly Dancyger @lillydancyger.bsky.social
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Not necessarily. I did multiple research trips for my memoir before I sold it. Self-funded, which was part of why it took me over a decade to finish the book!

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Lilly Dancyger's avatar Lilly Dancyger @lillydancyger.bsky.social
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I don’t know!! But I meant *check* a bag so I clearly also can’t remember words anymore lol

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I need to pack a bag whenever I travel at this point bc I must have my heating pad, my house slippers, my pillow, and my travel-size foam roller 🤷‍♀️

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Tikkun Olamunist - ירמל גרױס's avatar Tikkun Olamunist - ירמל גרױס @tikkunolamunist.bsky.social
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Yiddish lesson of the day. If you're Jewish and your friends, family, or community are attacking your Jewish identity for wanting a ceasefire in Gaza, just repeat this handy phrase: "אױב דו מיינסט מיר אַזאַ שלעכטער ייִד, לערנ מיך עפּעס תורה!" (Oyb du meynst mir aza shlechter yid, lern mich epes Toyreh)

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Lilly Dancyger's avatar Lilly Dancyger @lillydancyger.bsky.social
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At the stage of a new writing project where I'm considering taking all of the art down in my office so I can make elaborate Charlie Day/Homeland-style wall plans

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Ryan Boyd's avatar Ryan Boyd @ryanboyd.bsky.social
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I'll read The Critique of Pure Reason before I watch a 2-minute video of someone talking into their phone camera

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Lilly Dancyger's avatar Lilly Dancyger @lillydancyger.bsky.social
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Is your child texting about Kate Middleton?? brb: Binging Royal Bullshit lol: Losing it Over the Lousy photo editing omg: Obsessed w/ this Marchioness Girl wtf: Windsor Thruther Fanatic idc: I Dream of Catherine wyd: Will, You’re getting Divorced

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Rebecca Makkai's avatar Rebecca Makkai @rebeccamakkai.bsky.social
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You all know how much I love an interior design fail, but today we're talking about interiority design fails (i.e., the troubles writers face when trying to get inside a character's head). I wrote about eight common mistakes, including Gazing Out the Window Syndrome and the Cardiopulmonary Trap.

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Lilly Dancyger's avatar Lilly Dancyger @lillydancyger.bsky.social
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Read this before I even got out of bed this morning—it was great!

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Caught me off guard for a second that you’re not actually Phil and Lil’s mom

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Lilly Dancyger's avatar Lilly Dancyger @lillydancyger.bsky.social
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was in a bad mood so I took a break from work-work to write a few hundred words in my WIP. now I'm still in a bad mood, but at least a have a few hundred new words! is this morale?

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Micah Nemerever 🕊️'s avatar Micah Nemerever 🕊️ @nemerevermore.bsky.social
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LRTs—I feel like the Jews who have been speaking out are deeply and thoughtfully engaged with their Jewishness in a way you are religiously obligated to be, and the "self-hating"/"not a real Jew" framing is like… sacrilegiously insulting

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Lilly Dancyger's avatar Lilly Dancyger @lillydancyger.bsky.social
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The only real surprise was Emma Stone—I, like everyone, figured that one was going to Lily Gladstone! But I thought she did an incredible job in Poor Things

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David M. Perry's avatar David M. Perry @lollardfish.bsky.social
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Just so it's clear. He's refuting his Jewishness being hijacked, he's refuting the Holocaust being hijacked. It's not complicated.

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Lilly Dancyger's avatar Lilly Dancyger @lillydancyger.bsky.social
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I’ve been calling bluesky “twitter methadone,” which… same basic principle

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Alex West's avatar Alex West @alexwest.bsky.social
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Based on my experience this is the expression most Irish people have when a British person talks to them.

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