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Chronically online programmer (full-stack / person most often flung at the weird new tech) and a historian with a PhD because that makes sense. 🏳️‍⚧️ All views my own and not my employer’s (or anyone else’s)


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It’s why when some of us (trans women) experience a monthly cycle, they get so angry. How dare we be included in the suffering? Such a bleak view of women.

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How can I be this not good at voice training?

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The Shirou Paradox

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Oh dear.

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Not even a soupçon! Much less a mote!

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(This held until 8th grade. I couldn't make sense of evolution not being real. Massive cognitive dissonance can only block so much.) But if you didn't come from this, understand: The passionate desire to protect their kids was REAL, however misguided. If it doesn't scare you, it should. (5/5)

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So, I resolved to listen to it but felt like it was weird that this was the *one issue* where modern science was just wrong. And we knew it for sure. Mostly to this day I remember the absolute FEAR she tried to instill on the point. (4/5)

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She told us, paraphrased through decades of memory, "Now, you might learn about this is school, but if you do, you need to not believe it. Tell your parents and remember how wrong it is." Now, this was weird. I trusted my teachers. I was a good kid (tm). But she seemed *so scared* by this. (3/5)

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We went up as usual but the lesson wasn't from any of the lesson books. Instead a woman, who was my art teacher in elementary school, got up and asked if we had heard about evolution. I had and I knew I wasn't supposed to "believe" in it, but suddenly this conversation had *weight*. (2/5)

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So, Crazy Fundie Chronicles #1. Let's start with a light one: I was in first grade (late 80s-ish) and went up for the children's lesson before the kids left for Sunday School. This was usually taught by a volunteer who would talk about the Bible lesson for the day or similar. One day... (1/5)

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I mean, I opened up to my dad a few days before he was due to visit and I couldn’t stand to boy mode one more day, and he disowned me. But, my advice is that the best you can do is be kind and clear in explaining. The rest is theirs to handle. DMs always open if you need to talk about it.

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From personal (regrettable) experience that time probably will come, and the only choice we get is to time it to our benefit.

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I’ll take a win tonight. I felt a migraine winding up and for the first time in my life I had a rescue med to just *stop it*. Wow.

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I get it. Condemn them for being a shithead for the correct reasons, not based on a misreading.

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I could do a whole series of absolutely insane religious things from my childhood and I wasn’t raised in a totally bonked community.

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I grew up being told that Jesus was coming back any day now and that we needed to live our lives accordingly. It sounds and is insane but when you mold your entire community around it, perverse evil like Project 2025 is so easy to accept. Take them at their word on their wishes.

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Make a band meatier. The Beef-52s

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I take it the fall out of telling them is intolerable?

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Make a band meatier. The Pork Rolling Stones

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BREAKING: Upside side down French flag spotted outside the Alitos' summer residence

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I mean okay but flare pants look so damn good on me. They’ll pry my skinny jeans from my cold dead hips though.

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I’ve followed this whole thread and I am so sorry. We all have a version of this story but that doesn’t my any of them any easier.

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Oh wow he has an outright Hitlerstache.

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I get so frustrated with the men who, no matter how femme I may be now accord me “guy respect.” If they’re going be misogynists at least put me in the right group and treat me like a ditz too 😡. I mean maybe fixing the wrong problem here.

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🎼 CIS FORMERS 🎶 JUST WHAT MEETS THE EYE 🎵 CIS FORMERS 🎶 CARS YOU HAVE TO DRIVE

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That’s pretty rough. Genuinely sorry and felt. Been there.

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Yes, it’s a planning thing for sure! And frankly I’m going to listen to the people with cultural memory for how you do this.

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If your opinion is toxic then I join you in it.

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I, a bepenised lesbian, wish to use the bathroom to pee, the locker room to change after swimming, and brunch with the ladies to make it clear I am just that basic.

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Also thank you for making a fantasy world where I see people like me (even if they are *gratuitous spoilers for entire series*)!

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I can agree on improvement but I love catching the nods to the original crew!

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If your enemy creates a stick they intend to beat you with but is foolish enough to give you a first turn, you should use it accordingly.

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maybe seizing and arresting the Supreme Court majority for aiding and abetting an attempt to overthrow the U.S. government can be a "core constitutional duty" and an "official act," why not

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Ended Pride at the bar whose lesbian head chef started our local Pride celebration, where the current mayor and her soon to be wife sang in the karaoke competition. So basically: women.

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Everyone clearly thought I should be one of the girls and couldn’t figure out why…

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I’m sorry. Of all days you should be able to go as you.

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Y’know the world looks pretty not great for LGBT people. But pride in my town in south Jersey is today and it’s turned into a community wide event and supporters outnumber protestors (if any) by an order of magnitude. So that’s something. And we have a babysitter for tonight!

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About like “what’s your biggest fantasy?” I dunno sleeping till 10?

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I dumped their stock and won’t be shopping there. I too can be a good neighbor.

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Just saying her role in the epilogue is *very funny*. Not as funny as someone’s line but…

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It’s also hard. I agree but equally I’m gauging when it’s time to leave the country as a trans woman married to another woman. That’ll make sleeping tough.

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ultimately this is what it comes down to Ronald Reagan was barely there during his second term; the government continued on the same trajectory Biden has been good in some areas, bad in others, terrible in a few Trump will be apocalyptically terrible in every area it’s still an easy choice

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