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Jessica Coles

@prairievixen.bsky.social

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(she/her) Poet, editor, finder of lost things, singer of silly songs. Poems in Moist Poetry, EcoTheo Review, Full Mood Mag, CV2, The Fiddlehead, and others. Lover of beings that move between worlds. Endearingly uncool. prairievixenpress.ca


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My local shoe shop has an acceptable balance of comfort and style. But I cheaped out on these sandals and I have been chastised. ๐Ÿ˜…

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My feet have very noisily informed me, with sharp persistent pain, that they no longer wish to walk around the city in pretty little flip-flops with zero support. ๐Ÿ˜’

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The open mic host shared some video clips from Monday. The clip of me was the last line of my 2nd song, my introduction for my last song, and a single chord strum of that song. He has an amazing heart. He is not particularly video tech savvy. ๐Ÿ˜‚

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I truly thought I could mindfulness my way out of getting quickly overstimulated with my kids being home for the summer. What I failed to account for is: that's not how this works at all. ๐Ÿคฆโ€โ™€๏ธ

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Truth. Disabled folx can handle our disabilities. Itโ€™s societyโ€™s treatment of us thatโ€™s tough to take.

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Write that thing. Make it weird. Make it sad. Make it funny or kinky or scary or whatever you want. Write what makes you happy.

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I promised myself that I wouldn't get precious about the volunteer marigolds in my garden this year. Because there are so very many of them. But, they make me extremely happy. So... I'm saving/protecting every single one of the volunteer marigolds again. ๐Ÿฅน

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RedwoodGirl (she/her) ๐Ÿ’–๐Ÿ’œ๐Ÿ’™'s avatar RedwoodGirl (she/her) ๐Ÿ’–๐Ÿ’œ๐Ÿ’™ @redwoodgirl.bsky.social
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Your honor, with all due respect: it wasn't a rock, it was a rock lobster.

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I think I got as far as failing Green twice before calling it quits.

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Be unhinged unto others as you would have them to be unhinged unto you.

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They never think of the fruit flies, do they. ๐Ÿ™„

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Well, if you have someone in your house who likes to make cocktails like sours and Tom Collins, you do need to keep an amount of lemons on hand. But they're not for stacking. That's just a hassle come squeezing time.

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Anyway, your semi-regular reminder that no one's worth is in their ability to be productive. You're a living being. You have worth, period.

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"No more basic fruit bowl!" from a reel about making a fancy stack of fresh lemons adorned with flowers. Look, darlin'. My fruit bowl is for 3 sad bananas, a bruised apple no one wants to eat, a slowly desiccating orange that no one remembers buying. Aesthetics abandoned this fruit bowl long ago.

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your mission: be weird. embrace your silly shit tend to your life force find the others

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I do understand that we live in systems that actively exclude disabled people. The work he's done with various therapies has made the systems somewhat easier to navigate. The space between what we ask him to do and what we offer to accommodate is so fucking slippery. There is no way to be correct.

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And if that goal isn't important to him*? What are we even doing??? *With the exception of things that will help him move through the world the way he wants to, but even then.

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I am beyond tired of the undercurrents of anxiety that people send my way when we discuss my son's abilities. So what if a particular skill is beyond his ability? Is it actually important that he does this thing in this particular way? We can find another way to achieve the same goal, ffs!

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In my relationship with my son & his disability, I've spent many hours on activities intended to make him "more functional". Those hours weren't without joy, delight, discovery. But what if I'd been taught how to enjoy who he is, exactly as he is, without constantly nudging him to be someone else?

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I feel like I just barely have a grip on allocating time for the "normal" aspects of our routine. I have a narrow margin of wiggle room for the things that inevitably throw off the routine. My energy & creativity for making PT fun for my son burnt out years ago (I've been doing this his whole life.)

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My absolute blessing of a cousin is studying to be a therapy assistant. She's been coming to my son's physio appointments to get hands-on experience. Yesterday, she offered to come up with ideas for incorporating his PT exercises into other routine activities. She's my new favorite person. ๐Ÿ’–

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July 4th is very rough on my dog (he is a royalist and considers George Washington a traitor)

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I broke the handle off the beautiful handmade "Crochet" mug that I got at Knit City in Vancouver in 2014. ๐Ÿ˜ข I don't know if it can be fixed but I'm going to try.

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Photo taken of the car next to us in the parking lot at the open mic venue on Monday. I don't know who my new friends are, but if it's meant to be, we'll find each other.

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Without downloading new pics, what is it like dating you? (This pains me, but it's entirely true.)

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Harvesting dragon saliva for rope is one hell of a job.

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Rope can just exist! It's your world! ๐Ÿ˜€

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I love having conversations about world-building with my spouse because he has broad knowledge about a lot of things I don't normally allocate much brainspace to. But it often ends with me saying, "Okay, but this story is fiction, so that's not how it *has* to work." ๐Ÿ˜

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Instead of TGIF, I propose WAFW: what a fucking Wednesday.

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Stories can help us find strength. Stories can expand our consciousness. Stories can be so many things.

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Not every story is a morality play. Not every protagonist is a paragon of virtue or heroism. Stories can be cathartic. Stories can be subversive. They can help us understand the human experience. They can shine a light on beliefs and norms and systems that cause people pain.

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Man I hope the people I'm giving writing advice understand that most of it is just me attempting to codify the fact that as a self-taught author I do EVERYTHING (everything, everything) by intuition. ALL I am doing when I write is putting down a sentence, cocking my head to listen, adjusting it.

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My inability to assess how long things actually take is in direct conflict with my deep need to not feel rushed today. โ˜น๏ธ

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I've got about 15 minutes before I have to get the kids sorted out for the morning's activities. I am soaking in this moment of peace.

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This morning, I'm listening to Emiliana Torrini's new album and doing other writing support activities (e.g., reading, daydreaming, drinking coffee). So farโ€”and it really is too soon to say for sureโ€”it looks like I'm doing a better job of navigating summer than I expected.

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I need to swap out "I'm too old for that." for "My accumulated life experiences and knowledge make your bullshit unacceptable."

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Back with a bang ๐Ÿ’ฅ weโ€™re now open for submissions to our Microfiction Contest! Prose or poetry - share your creations for a chance to be featured on the Augur website ๐ŸŒŸ Contest details and submission form is in our Linktree ๐Ÿ‘€ we canโ€™t wait to read your works!

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Capital City Press Anthology, Vol. 4 is live! Here's the text of my poem, "Mothers Lost and Found". The audio isn't ready quite yet, so I'll shout again when it's up. I'll also try to shout about some of the other pieces as I get time. :)

capitalcitypress.wordpress.com/2024/07/02/m...

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The Ventilationist school of architecture mostly works in low-oxygen water; they want as much flow-through as possible. They disdain the Sedimenti, who half-bury their buildings in the mud, barely peeping out, with only one door and no windows. And EVERYONE is confused by the Plasticists.

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It's so strange to talk to them, too -- they don't think like humans. Whenever one of their beautiful buildings gets destroyed, they cheer (because it's served its purpose) and then they rush to snatch the building materials. Nothing is wasted, nothing is overlooked. Not the smallest speck of glass.

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I'm quite interested in the avant-garde movement of the New Caddisflies actually? They're building beautiful as well as functional architecture from human detritus specifically -- iridescent plastic beads from discarded friendship bracelets, crumbled concrete to stay submerged in fast-flowing water.

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๐Ÿ“š๐Ÿฆโ€โฌ›Flemish Folktales Retold is OUT NOW!๐Ÿ“š๐Ÿฆโ€โฌ›

Walk on Flanders's paths to murky castles where will-o'-the-wisp's hover and meet the unearthly creatures who roamed this haunted region.

With @cazerin.bsky.social and @kerria.bsky.social. Info about the book here: signemaene.com/flemish-folk...

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We've hired my cousin to spend one day a week with the kids so that I can have a bit of a break. I am under orders to do only Me Things (of the restorative kind) on those days. Please send me many writing vibes. ๐Ÿ’–

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pride month is over but you should keep reading LGBTQ authors all year round!! we continue to be queer! we continue to need your support!!

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My kids got to see me perform on stage for the first time. My mom hadn't seen me play in public for a solid 15 years. I'm not sure my spouse had seen me play for an audience in that long (he hears practices, though). It was actually pretty special to have them all there.

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Honest to god, silly little queer books are sustaining me right now. They actually do make things better.

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Jessica, Kait's Wife ๐Ÿณ๏ธโ€โšง๏ธ๐Ÿณ๏ธโ€๐ŸŒˆ's avatar Jessica, Kait's Wife ๐Ÿณ๏ธโ€โšง๏ธ๐Ÿณ๏ธโ€๐ŸŒˆ @pairofclaws.bsky.social
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On that note: Trans authors (I mean authors who are trans, NOT cis people who write about trans people), drop your book links here and I'll try to repost as many as I can throughout the day. Cis people: Repost trans authors' book links. Cis people who want to complain about being excluded: gtfo

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