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Joseph-Kass Tomaras

@raconteuse.bsky.social

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Transfeminine author, literary translator, and sufferable pedant. Messenger of divine wrath and sleepy times.

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"I cannot use 'sudo' on a National Science Foundation supercomputer but I can use it here." - NP walking Kid 2 through programming a Raspberry Pi.

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Rules for trans people: Unless you are talking about something that has been thrown at a cop, keep the word "brick" out of your mouth.

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It's not enough shelves.

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I really do feel like niche genre fiction is especially in need of criticism on aesthetic grounds.

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As an author who is on bsky, I am all for callouts. But I am also a hater.

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Mine too, definitely

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Bad news, everyone. If you follow this account, you probably wonโ€™t get that job at Sullivan & Cromwell.

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At the risk of sounding Maoist: The class war is a culture war. Always has been.

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I got smarter when I started getting in touch with my body. More data...

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I followed you for the cat pics. Don't stop.

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I'm going to pick up some Monique Wittig and I'm going to go there.

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PolygonalShivs's avatar PolygonalShivs @siobhancasey.bsky.social
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Every single day that Labour doesn't reverse the puberty blocker ban they are signalling their subscription to an approach to trans healthcare that has irrefutably led to a dramatic increase in suicides of young trans people. That's what you voted for, if you voted for Labour.

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I love everything by The Raincoats.

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Thank you for your service.

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When I follow you: "this person is hot and seems smart; why do they keep complaining about being single?" 6 months later: "now I understand!"

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It's short for "good, giving, and game" and came from a Dan Savage column (๐Ÿคฎ) as a description of an ideal sexual partner. My opinion on "GGG" is that it's an ascribed identity. Calling yourself GGG is a red flag.

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The line between the two is faint and hard to find.

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I mean, I did spend a quarter century of my adult life successfully gaslighting myself out of happiness. A bit of mourning is to be expected.

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Emad Saad โœŒ๐Ÿ‡ต๐Ÿ‡ธ ๐Ÿ‰ 's avatar Emad Saad โœŒ๐Ÿ‡ต๐Ÿ‡ธ ๐Ÿ‰ @imad3.bsky.social
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Let's save them and let them join their dad again Please help our children to survive and meet dad after more than a year of being away from him All almost done the passports and some documents are ready just he have to pay the solicitor and transport expenses once Rafah crossing is open

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My NP looks a lot like my Ex, and I was seriously worried that after the two of them met for the first time that one or both of them would give me shit about that. I'm glad that they haven't.

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My kids are a trans guy and an agender kid.

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May the name Anne-Laurence Petel be remembered as an enabler of fascism.

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"What seemed farcical when it was announced or staged as a big production, became a tragedy when it was allowed to go on quietly."

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My NP's other girlfriend has a wife. As long as that marriage is going well it reassures me that my backup role is at least stable. I do think that NP's feelings for their other girlfriend are stronger than their feelings for me, though.

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This is, as far as I am concerned, the only acceptable use of crypto.

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What did the laughter mean?

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Marisa Kabas's avatar Marisa Kabas @marisakabas.bsky.social
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people will vote for trump because even though theyโ€™re much more likely to benefit from one of the social welfare programs he wants to gut, they think they could one day be an unrepentant asshole who tells lies without consequences and runs the world.

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Today was the 4th anniversary of my first dose of Estradiol. It was also the first anniversary of my first date with GF.

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I just blocked an Armenian white supremacist over there, so, yeah, it's not looking good.

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Just drafted an 800 word commissioned article for [redacted]

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ANC governments have had horrible policies toward immigrants from other African countries. I think this can be fairly blamed on nationalism.

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"When small men cast large shadows, it is a sure sign that the sun is setting"

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I am so delighted to be here for this!

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I've heard rumors about someone whose work I love, and find them credible. Just waiting for that shoe to drop...

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Since NP moved in I have prepared all our shared dinners. So far, these have been: - cavolo nero and cannellini beans in a tomato broth thickened with bread - my tzatziki, served with bread and lox - tostadas with black beans, tinga (for me) or fried egg (them), greens, avocado, chipotle, and papalo

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NP and I are a mixed household. I am a experimental composition as background sounds girl, and they are a podcast as background NB.

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"Unter a ployt" ("At the Foot of a Fence" in my translation), by Der Nister

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Ketan Joshi's avatar Ketan Joshi @ketanjoshi.co
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Back in the early to mid 2010s there was this view that you should gently convince right wingers to believe in climate science and my response was always: "a right wing that believes the science is scarier than one that denies it"

WELP HERE WE ARE

www.theguardian.com/environment/...

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I have no choice but to agree.

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Hated the concept, considered it "goyish". (On my mother's side of the family, "goyish" is the worst thing you can say about anything.)

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We are both in the "grandmothers who looked uncannily like Angela Lansbury" club.

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I banished it by taking daily doses of estrogen. Either way, it turns out Spinoza was right.

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She lives in my area and owns/runs an important venue (Graveside Variety in Woodstock NY), which results in a lot of people in the local music scene being far more diplomatic about her than they should.

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Traveling solo as a trans woman is googling "is X safe for trans women" and getting "X is very safe for wealthy white gay men"

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One of these days (probably after she's done with laser) my girlfriend will let me do this... and then it's so on!

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Wonderful, thank you so much for the insights!

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