Reposted by Gillian Branstetter
Going public with an experience like this is life-altering for a woman, so when you read these stories remember both the extraordinary amount of courage involved and also the likelihood that there are many others you’ll never hear.
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Oh I totally agree with that. The idea they're going to shoehorn a Whitmer or Newsom in is fantastical. It's either Harris or Biden
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Right but is that because 1) they could no longer ignore what voters were seeing all along and 2) the debate made apparent how it could cost them their *own* seat? Has Biden been saved this whole time by the fact most down ballot Dems are polling ahead of him?
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I get this critique but also Aaron Sorkin would've had Biden grip the podium and cogently scold Trump with a soaring cascade of idioms while his male staffers sexually harass his female staffers backstage so idk
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Fair though CBS poll this morning says 45% of Dems want him off the ticket. That's not a constituency that can be disregarded as "bedwetters"
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The failure isn't naming the problem now--the failure is what took them so long
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I think what's being swatted down as "elite opinion" from NYT/Crooked types is actually the piercing of a bubble from below. Most voters haven't wanted Biden to run again for literally years.
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What a beautiful wedding (foreboding)
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"Panic" is not the same thing as fear. Panic is irrational; fear can be quite rational
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I don't think I've seen enough discussion of this possibility which, to be absolutely clear, would be historically catastrophic. For women, for trans people, for immigrants, for the working class, for the planet.
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Wait a minute
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US pols: We can't possibly replace a candidate 125 days out from the election
European Pols: We're shutting this shit down, whole parliament is up for election in 60 days so we can pick our third PM in two years
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I don't think most people asking Biden to drop out are doing so because he's committed some grave immorality or act of corruption like Trump. They're doing so because they want to defeat Trump.
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There were many loud calls from establishment media and Republicans for Trump to drop out at numerous points in 2016 and they didn't work because he, unlike Biden, has a loyal electorate. And sure, if Trump was replaced by Haley she'd demolish Biden--but that's just further evidence against Biden!
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Like forget the AMA/APA/etc. Imagine having to find a new home, new job, new schools, rebuild your entire life. Would you even have the means to? Now ask yourself if you would do that for anything that was less than absolutely necessary for the good of your child. That sticks in the memory.
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A point I've started using lately is the fact so many families I speak to are leaving the only homes their kids have ever known to ensure their trans kid can maintain access to hormones or blockers. Do you really think they're doing that for anything short of essential for their child's well-being?
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I like naming non-pathologized benefits trans kids get from this care. Less about decreasing depression/anxiety/suicidality; more about building friendships, healthier family relationships, more focus in school, more ambition, planning for their future. All of which is true!
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I like saying "families" over "parents" because it's both more inclusive and registers that the trans kid themselves has agency in the care (while in practice parents are always involved). Also good to stress decisions about care are individualized; not about what's right for "a kid" but "this kid"
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What else? I like naming hormones and puberty blockers rather than saying GAC when possible. Also good to acknowledge the (irrational) reaction people have to blocking puberty as something that sounds like a big deal but is totally not medically speaking. Like "I know that can sound pretty wild but"
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I probably should! I think NCTE and the Movement Advancement Project also have public facing materials on their websites (I know the former does because I wrote them)
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I also have easy go-to's of identifying the direction by saying like "a transgender man like Elliot Page" because otherwise the audience will literally get stuck wondering if I meant a "man who transitioned into a woman" like a dog with a leash stuck around it's legs
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A simple one is naming the "direction" of my own transition by identifying it early in an interview because if I don't a good chunk of the audience won't hear what I'm saying and will spend all their time trying to identify 1) if I'm trans and 2) what kind of trans person I am
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When I tell cis people tips and tricks I've learned in communicating about trans rights they act so disgusted on my behalf but like I really do have to go to war with the troops I have so please, you all should be offended
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This took me a bit to think through--Harris is not the best candidate in an ideal world but in this world she would be the least chaotic and most familiar. Primary voters voted for her on the ticket which helps the part of this I'm least comfortable with (closed room delegate debates)
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One thing I will not tolerate is someone accusing me of being cavalier about the risks of Trump. My own trans body will never let me forget or minimize it, and the families with trans kids I meet every week are having their children endangered by the same policies he wants to take national.
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He said he would serve as a "bridge" but never specifically said he would only serve one term
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Is that frustration a critical lens for understanding the risks of staying in or is it a distorting cognitive bias making me want him to drop out? I think either way I'd like to put everyone who brought us here in stocks in the town square for idk four months
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I've been trying to think through how much of my support for Biden dropping out is actually fueled by a frustration that he ran in the first place, and specifically that the chaotic and dangerous situation we're now in was predictable, avoidable, and not the fault of people calling for him to quit
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Not when the emperor is wearing no clothes
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The problem with all the potential Biden replacements is they keep coming out and defending Biden and it's actively making me like them less
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"But Donald Trump lied!!"
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Good start
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If the calls to drop out come from like AOC or the Squad it'll llbe completely dismissed. It needs to be like the Crooked guys or David Brooks cab driver
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