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Toffee

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31-year-old from Sweden who probably talks too much about her favourite TV shows. Self-dx ADHD and mad about it. Please show me photos of your pet. (She/Her)

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They definitely have lost track of when 30 years ago was (aside from believing that lack of diagnosis means the underlying condition can't exist).

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I love seeing pets in strollers 😄

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Just saw (and heard) a tiny little ragdoll kitten in a bicycle basket and that's the sort of stuff that happens when I'm out walking my mom's dogs. Apparently she's 14 weeks old.

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You literally shared their own public post so ABSOLUTELY NOT

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😖

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Some women have internalised misogyny... and some are just extremely fucking selfish human beings (there's overlap of course).

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I think so 🤔 I mainly spotted it thanks to the (blurry) body.

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Not really something I would hold against him... I feel worse about King (whose work I generally admire) just from his bad writing of female characters.

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Lower right corner

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😀

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Since 16-year-olds can drive in the US, are we sure they aren't just... literally kids? I agree with your general point though.

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Have you ever considered turning it off? I prefer it that way myself.

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Considering you can disable autocorrect, perhaps just a tad...

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How is it supposed to be pronounced? (English is my second language.)

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Mara Wilson's avatar Mara Wilson @marawilson.bsky.social
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I enjoying mysekf by the lamp, but then I remembered instances of regret in my life, and pain I have caused others

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Yeah... I'm 32 and my dad was BORN in 1968. 😆

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To enjoy it is not to say it fixes everything. You are allowed to enjoy it because it’s funny.

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I didn't get that either!

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Jesus... I really appreciate the option to filter NSFW content from my feed, but this isn't that.

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That looks STUNNING

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Is this what guys mean when they talk about "wet dreams"?

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Oh yeah, I get it! My dad seems to have dropped the idea of trying to get diagnosed unfortunately, but there's been a couple of different signs.

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This is making me wonder about my dad's Facebook posting... 😅 (He has mentioned suspecting bipolar disorder before.) Higher word limit there though so he really can really spread his wings and rant.

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There are also specific queer subcultures that some of these movies make use of.

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Look, I know what you're getting at, but it's not our fault that heterosexual mainstream media has depicted women in such boring ways for so long that most fun movies feel gay. 🤷‍♀️

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Oh you meant you? I wasn't correcting you tbc! I think "hej hej" works. But not "hey hey" like I wrote.

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I don't really have a problem with that but I do have the problem where my brain mixes up Swedish and English 😅

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Haha wow. I relate to the impulse but I try to respond when people talk to me 😅 Especially when you can just say "hey hey" and move along.

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I wish it was more true where I live though - trying to get people to maintain proper distance during the pandemic was essentially impossible. So apparently the normal distance is shorter than 2 meters (and Swedes don't really wanna think about covid).

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As someone who would run away from another person to avoid small talk: it's not universal but it's an accurate reputation. 😅

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Haha låter prefekt!

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"Quote skeet with straight movies that still feel kinda gay to you"

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No one said they can't. If they were solely and explicitly gay then we would simply be calling them gay movies, not movies that feel gay.

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I think you COULD have a discussion about rape culture and lifelike sex dolls, considering they are actually intended to be anthropomorphized. Not as an issue of consent though 😓 And not in order to judge users on an individual basis.

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Oh that poor kid XD And your poor ears.

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Jaa mitt i projektet, ännu värre!

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Hatar när affärer möblerar om! Jag är redan förvirrad nog.

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Now when there's GIFs I can actually consider moving to this site.

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Urgh, that sucks. Anger is a very normal reaction in this situation. And they might need to hear it too.

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...every comment on Sweden I might disahree with.

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I was thinking about the "monocultural" comment. I assume the wall is about how hard it is to make friends? Didn't know that was what the post was about! Also missed the it was a repost of the one about your son being bullied 😬 Feel free to vent snd we don't need to make a discussion out of...

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