My husband is reading a really interesting book about activist burn out, and basically every chapter that looks at specific historical activists shows that being unable to acknowledge even minor victories leads to burn out and depression.
So I did child abuse intake (and βdelinquentβ court cases) for 5 years and the only thing that calmed me was ironing bc I got instant results. I knew abused kids that grew into delinquent kids while the state tied my hands with lack of funding for β¦ anything
ive seen the take lately that "how can someone go to pride when theres so much suffering in the world" and im like its exactly this!!! we HAVE to have joy too whenever and whereever we can take it
On some level I think that these are closely linked things: the traits that lead to activism overlap with (call it) doomerism, & the exceptions are rare. Same with the huge difficulty of transitioning nonprofits once the founders move onβwhat made them a good founder made them bad at passing on.
I do think a weird thing about western culture is that if something feels good it must be bad to do. Like the only way to be virtuous is to be in constant despair.
Burnout and turnover in the public health field are out of control right now and the fact that people are intent on memory-holing a historic, exhausting mobilization has a good deal to do with it
I think people get too invested in the idea of wins and losses - like it is a narrative arc. The reality is one of ongoing struggle. If we don't fight things will get worse, so we keep fighting. In NZ we chant: "Ka whawai tonu matou!" "Ake! Ake! Ake!" Roughly "Our endless struggle! Forever more!"
my wife does research on a very emotionally painful subject, and one of her advisors refused to take her on until she had developed a self-care plan. that advisor is currently my favorite person at her school lol
I was in the trenches for a really long time in NC, and I worked really hard to identify even the smallest victories to avoid my allies and I getting burned out. This sounds like a really helpful read.
I have a half-formed thought about the difference between "yes, and" and "yes, but" and the attitudes and forward momentum that is either promoted by or halted by the choice people make in how they express themselves. The former encourages building on what was done, the latter just crushes it.