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Dov [chose the bear]

@bundistcasual.bsky.social

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They/she. Gay dude. White. Over 30. Jewish (Progressive, Bundist). Tired, probably gonna talk about random nonsense. No kids, no techbros. Discord: bearmojis (when I accept your request just tell me who you are) DMs open but I don’t do debates.


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Because you can only post bewares on it in the morning

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I can’t celebrate the election results because Labour/Tory are just two cheeks of the same arse

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Goose chasing a guy saying “what about the people who couldn’t just move”

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I didn’t go around unplugging 1940s space marines for this

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ʝꪖꪀꪊᦓ ᥅ꪮᦓꫀ 🍉's avatar ʝꪖꪀꪊᦓ ᥅ꪮᦓꫀ 🍉 @janus.bsky.social
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Amein 🙏

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Null convention's avatar Null convention @nullconvention.bsky.social
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no, activism is not "calling out" random destitute trans women because you thought they said something you didn't care for. nothing has ever been helped or improved by throwing shit at trans women on social media.

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I don’t get how people can celebrate our collective determination in every instance other than this. It’s no different to any other historical instance of “fuck the king, we deserve to live”.

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Alexandra Merideth Erin [she/her] - in my Brain Damage arc's avatar Alexandra Merideth Erin [she/her] - in my Brain Damage arc @alexandraerin.com
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I've just seen that Julie Bindel has posted to make it clear that she sees these women's stories as a hammer to attack trans allies and frankly she can eat shit in hell at a trough alongside Neil Gaiman. Weaponizing a survivor's story is not much different from disbelieving it.

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Jane's avatar Jane @fightingpride93.bsky.social
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All the cis women who said they would be a trans person’s mum during Pride Month are begging them to clean up the Monster Energy cans in their room today

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Considering I’m not getting anything as my mum got herself disinherited because she kept me (allegedly) I think I’m good

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Buddy. Pal. You were blocked for being a transphobe. He then got defensive like “it doesn’t matter” and I just avoided him the rest of the night.

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Funny but awful: Few years back this guy messaged me and added me on FB, but as he’s much younger, not a thing happened. Then he starts being transphobic so I blocked him. Then we run into each other at the club months afterwards and he asks why I blocked him????

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spark relation 's avatar spark relation @alf.schlongalaxy.space
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Hey so I don’t know who needs to read this but trans women specifically are considered disposable and expedient by pretty much all governing political parties and none of them are our default good guys.

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Every time I think of him (Navirou) I remember why I can’t go back there (MHS2)

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Cancelled in the transmasc community because I don’t watch Hannibal 😔

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She/herazade's avatar She/herazade @transgenderhistory.bsky.social
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Periodic reminder to babytranses that it's a supremely stupid idea to post a photo of your new ID online I know you're excited about your name change but babe PLEASE no

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Maddie's avatar Maddie @maddiequestions.bsky.social
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tbh i need a roommate who a) has an income, b) won't try to murder me i know i know a high bar to clear and after last week's experience i need to be more cautious in the Denver area

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Me wishing we got the crab synth instead of the sky bastards

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It’s a Wolfenstein joke, if you don’t know, play The New Colossus, if you don’t want to, don’t worry about it

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Okay but exactly how beaten down do I have to get before I get transferred to a cyborg body.

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It’s too early to say what boss this makes me think of but I can confirm, he’ll erase your health bar

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We literally make a deal with a cosmic entity, to varied results. And we’ve at least one ancestor who fought said entity and did pretty well out of it.

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They just don’t get to pet enough cats and dogs

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Something something accusations and confessions. Every time.

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I know. Even in the UK, it’s much the same. People lose their previously-decent jobs, their families, friends and also access to decent housing. Not that suffering is validation but…remind me how the fuck can someone call this a trend?

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Where the fuck do we go when we don’t fit anywhere, aka why I’m a Bundist

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Very appropriate when one needs to remind people that suffering just hurts

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It’s what’s inside the power armour that matters. Meat. Barely conscious meat.

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DaisyFM ✒︎🍉's avatar DaisyFM ✒︎🍉 @daisyfm.bsky.social
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Please remember this useful chart when rating things online. How movie ratings work: ★★★★★ - Great! ★★★★ - Good. ★★★ - Eh, Not Bad. ★★ - Mediocre. ★ - Garbage. How Uber/Lyft ratings work: ★★★★★ - Okay. ★★★★ - Fire this person. ★★★ - Fire this person. ★★ - Fire this person. ★ - Fire this person.

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That’s very cool! I’m gonna get my doikayt one eventually

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We definitely need some Ladino speakers to join in though

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Performing The Internationale in Yiddish, but a metal version

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I mean we are gonna need Bundist drag artists so…

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*sigh* Reminds me of not being able to turn off ad notifications so I kept seeing them for pepperoni pizza during Passover 😂

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Same dude was, I’m almost certain, having an affair or I was the side piece the whole time. We were open but expected to be honest about seeing other people, not lie about it.

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Also having dated someone who thought everyone in the vicinity wanted me (not in a favourable way) and was awful about my clothes being “too slutty” (Gay men can do this too), the whole thing just hurts to read.

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“Micro cheating”, aka trying to justify controlling behaviour. Or, at MOST charitable being paranoid and hypervigilant about cheating due to trauma, which is not healthy either.

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If you want to get more into creatures then give the Wayward Children podcast a listen, they’re great

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Exactly. Being a trans guy…I experience things beyond their comprehension

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“Tits or ass” Both if you’re chub4chub actually

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I’ll tell other people that bad relationships don’t have to be dramatic to count but when it’s me I feel different.

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I’m so mentally checked out of a situation that, bar one incident, doesn’t qualify as provably awful

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Like…I’m not a manic pixie or fake trans. And it’s a debilitating disorder that could earn me a toe tag.

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Oh it’s very different to wanting a person who understands your mental illness. I would rather be around someone who Gets It, but not people who specifically demonise and sexualise things that are real problems for a person to have.

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And then they fetishise ASPD as “edgy cis dude Tumblr dom” which is also shitty (I don’t have that but, come on)

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People think BPD is just “Harley Quinn disease” rather than “my baseline is I don’t want to be here and random shit will remind me I don’t want to be here”

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Unfortunately, I’m not that. I’m stuck being terrifying and it’s not even fun and when people fetishise cluster B disorders they misgender me.

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I wish I could just be a performative edgelord and stop caring that people think BPD means evil monster who boils bunnies

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