Inspired by recent plane-based TikTok drama, a PSA: Videoing strangers in public is typically a foolish idea, not everything that happens in your vicinity is a true-crime saga, and minding your own business instead of maintaining 24/7 surveillance is good for you.
Even if he was cheating, this is the WORST way to find out. Everyone knowing your husband is cheating on you could be more traumatizing than the cheating.
Absolutely insane to document this on social media for the whole world to weigh in while knowing nothing of what's actually going on. What happened to just speculating and then telling a friend if it's that interesting?
As a polyamorous person, this kind of vigilante action always terrifies me. You don't know the terms of someone's relationship and maybe you've just forced someone out of the closet which sucks so bad.
Why don't these people use that energy to keep in check politicians, cops, and shitty companies? Want to be a vigilante? Well you shouldn't, but if you must at least call out public figures.
"journalist Taylor Lorenz recently .... argued, not without some blowback, that [phones] aren’t really destroying the minds of younger generations"
man this is a beautifully self-defeating argument
Unless you need to document a horrible thing that's happening to me and I'd need footage for a lawsuit, I don't need to be recorded.
Unless I'm doing something really cool.
And like the disgusting women who made a Target checkout person go viral for being "hot" consider for one whole minute "Is it likely this total stranger is a child?"