"Crimpy and Xx_snud_xX are abusers." "Inflation_Gary is LITERALLY a gaslighter." "Mingus and Bonko are doing elder abuse scams on a private darkweb server that violated pet play consent." We are teetering on the brink of a permanent planet-wide psychotic break. Log off.
I block anyone who annoys me or gives me a bad vibe and my life is infinitely better than it was when I brooded on unpleasant interactions until they became Things in their own right, reflective of the world around me. Shut up. Read a book. Make a friend.
I'm so grateful when a kind and generous mufo got WAY too caught up in the drama and decided to take indefinite hiatus. Like, please, stop touching the hot stove, as an act of self-love.
Grabbing the kids by the shoulders and telling them that having friends who aren't all in some weird omnidirectional online panopticon-polycule situation will keep you from getting your brain turned into coleslaw. Form a book club or something.
Sometimes the worst people also come up with the dumbest names for themselves, which really should be the giant neon warning sign about their past/present/impending misdeeds but somehow isn't 🤷♀️🤦♀️😟