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Tim-my Eat World

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music lover, BayArea sports, home cook, partnered SAHD of 2, drinker of drinks, NorCal➡️DC➡️PHX, failed evangelical experiment #exChristian


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For twenty years, I was too afraid to challenge my faith. I thought that it might fall apart I get it. I was brainwashed, too. But all along, I deep down in my heart, I knew there was something amiss. I know from painful, hard-earned experience what discomfort can do to change minds.

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“People who cook for a living are in the pleasure business, it's no coincidence that just about every chef or cook you bump into also really likes music, and things that give them immediate gratification. They’re sensualists. That’s their business and their pleasure.” - Anthony Bourdain, 2011

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you're mistaken, that's just Amy Coney Barrett, she just looks like a horse when she's grumpy (so most of the time)

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the dude was an underrated defender alongside Draymond, Bogut, Iguodala, KD, and GPII.. always in the shadows of great defenders, a big guard who caused problems on both ends, could switch on to 1s and 3s.. IMO the Mavs end up using him in an all-offense lineup, which the Mavs somehow compete with?

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you get it cheers for the respective timing of our sports fandom 🥂

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I wish him all the best in Dallas, he deserves more than the current Warriors were 'able' to put around him or pay him (second apron taxes were clearly a factor too)

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Klay Thompson might be my favorite athlete I've ever rooted for, when he is in destruction mode there's not much you can do - Game 6s, 38pt quarter, most threes in an NBA game.. plus coming back from the two devastating injuries the way he did and winning that 4th trophy.. 😭🏆😭🏆😭🏆😭🏆😭

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"I can't afford this hella expensive & unnecessary truck so I'll just imagine renters who will never mess it up and everything will go perfect and bail me out of my clearly bad decision" 🤦

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which, in retrospect.. '07 was a preeeeetty ideal time to get back into the NBA for Warriors fans

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dope! I grew up without TV so the Jordan legend was born via Sports Illustrated Kids, & I had a Bulls championship hat even though I lived in the BayArea then I got into music in high school & college and that meant none of my friends were into sports anymore 🤷 The '07Warriors got me back into it

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"We would be remiss if we didn't discuss Allen Iverson stepping over Tyrone Lue in the Finals *opens thick, full three-ring binder, dramatically cleans, then dons a pair of reading spectacles*

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that's literally my NBA blind spot, from Jordan retiring to the We Believe -Warriors in '07

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So.. You're Emotionally Attached To A Leader : How I Realized Our Democracy Is Fucked, A Memoir

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and the loudest, most violent, highest- demanding version of X-ianity will win that fight, they other kinds of X-ians aren't ready to defend it

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"small government" printed on the ass of a tracksuit whose wearer's hips are knocking over all the china in the china shop

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News Flash: French folks might think they are better than you 😱

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The CP3/Wemby combo has the possibilty to be the best lob-thrower/lob-catcher combo of all time, no? but the CP3/Popovich combo has the possibility to be a constant battle between two very strong willed dudes.. every rose has its thorn 😂

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taking the time to allow yourself to get to know yourself after a childhood of hardline religious indoctrination is a necessary step on the path to healing. Evangelicalism effaced so much of me that for a long time I didn’t really know who I was or what I wanted. I’m still figuring some of that out.

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fun to be alive to see the "you can only be American if you cosplay as the white, straight, Christian-nationalist, capitalist-addicted citizens we imagine as the peak humanity has to offer" -party's strategies kicks in TIM WUZ HERE

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Frightened The Hold Rabbit Steady Frank 🤝 Turner Gang of Ezra Youths Furman

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very predictably this new Frank Turner album is fucking me up in all the best ways after seeing him live a few weeks ago some beautiful mid-life reckoning with his inner child, specifically his teen self, plus pretty much everything I want musically 🥰🎶

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a sugar pill that's not even a pill, it's just the confirmation bias *BEHIND* the pill consumption that "what I'm doing is working!" if you ever feel like it's not working you can just gulp down an 'overdose' of X-ianity, that kind of behavior is rewarded imagine the sickness, imagine the cure

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in the next six months Biden needs to reverse- use all the loopholes that Project 2025 was gonna try to use just to gum up the works for future fascism

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Is it a hassle to work a recovery? Absolutely. It's a pain in the ass. It means no more going on autopilot. Setting goals and using skills every day. Lots of living on purpose, w/ eyes wide open. Also: it's worth it.

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"don't mind me just over here making ambition to counter the ambition you made to keep that OG ambition in check, and don't worry I've already put the order in for some more future ambition to counter my new ambition.. can't let THAT shit flounder around unchecked, amirite?!"

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it's driven by the motor of pure capitalism 😚👌

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Happy Not-Asking 'Are We The Baddies?' -Day to all who celebrate

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the thing with the say-a-prayer, evie salvation is that it avoids that work "skip the work, just invoke godpower with this incantation" instead of doing inner work to understand ourselves & gain 'third-eye' self-awareness we use our mental energy doing theological gymnastics to "make it all work"

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we can't force a person to change the way they think, those patterns are deep ruts in our neural pathways, we have to pick that apart & forge new ones ourselves as X-ians we're taught our actions expose our motives, and it's not that they don't it's that our motives are most often rooted in trauma

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I relate to your friend, I threaded the needle between what my X-ian adults told me was important and actually helping & loving people for SO long, it was such a tangled mess I ended up ripping the whole thing apart rather than living in that tension any longer, there's so much freedom outside it

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"we'll just imagine an even better God and then bingbangBOOM.. problem solved, our new god will make so much less sense than the last one, we have no choice but to believe and have a kind of destructive faith that isolates us from reality even *further*, making us easy for the leaders to manipulate"

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per usual, there's a degree of truth in that view, but it's just so far from the WHOLE story

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yeah it's pretty silly in retrospect, the way we police what we're exposed to, as if we're going to catch apostasy from another human, or a book at the same time, that is the view of what happens from inside it, I get that.. "they started listening to the lies of the world!" and then we're gone 🤷

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definitely behind the killing the infants and children episode but probably in front of when the priests stole women for themselves and convinced their dads "just let em go, fellas" there are A L O T of contendors

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exactly, trauma begets trauma, we're just passing on our trauma from when we got guilted into letting them pick our life (haven't used 'beget' in a while, thanks, Numbers! 😂)

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yup, you stay away from stuff they can't handle now I see it as 'our brains were so sheltered that we were just unpracticed at.. learning about the world'? our egos were so un- used to taking those hits, it made us feel bad and we avoided it, but we had NO clue that's what we did

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in another life I managed a X-ian camp it was TOTALLY NORMAL in my background to tell kids about animal sacrifices & cross executions so the Jesus story would hook them and when a speaker did that to the campers a volunteer asked 'why man! they're kids!' I was so in it I couldn't see his point 😭

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and so much of it is confirmation bias.. "I've never seen anything that makes a good case for why their take is wrong!" but so much is hidden from you then your eyes start to wander and they fear-monger you about whatever you're getting into - liberal theology, BIPOC perspectives, LGBTQ friends..

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oh god, elders meetings were the woooorst 😂 they get so bent out of shape if there's just a smidge of non-conformity to their standard for faith but in retrospect I think that each little occurrence of dissonance invokes fear in them that the whole thing's fake, it builds until they need a release

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you never really get to look into that in X-ian institutions, because they have one of the monolithical doctrines tacked to them once they get that big, they only tell you about THAT one, then only later IF you leave do you look back and see what a mess the whole thing is

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you're not "merging with AI", that's just AI fucking you in the ass

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"then over on discord they said.."

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totally, if I'm self-aware of my own motivations (alot of us aren't) I can introduce the idea of religion, mine or others, to kids in a way that isn't coercive, then they can claim it as their own if-and-when it feels right to them, built on their own experiences and not just copying mine

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I related alot to the post-religious journey in this article when it's that intense as a kid it burns you out, and the thought of redeeming any of it is so disheartening, legit *triggering* even but over time you can find healing and re-engage with spirituality, whatever that means to you 🥰

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'I grew up super religious in a very conservative town, my folks were really kind of…”cult-like Christianity” is how I'd describe it. I went to church every week. We'd be out of town on vacation and we'd go to church, you know? So I was burned out on it for a long time, I became pretty atheist...'

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now let's do mr. tambourine man, you know that MFer has some stories

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so he just *IS* a piano and sings I was imagining a true half person mounted on a piano like the top half of a man is mounted atop a horse in a centaur -situation

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like he can.. play himself? tickle his own ivories as it were?

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I mean someone has to catch the bad mices that are selling Columbian mice cocaine to the poor innocent citizen mice of Miami, that shit doesn't *JUST HAPPEN*

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