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I want to change the world so when the Galactic Federation comes, our first thoughts aren't "We're so f'd up they'd never take us." #BLM #Ukraine (He/Him)


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Of course you'll get there. It's all just a matter of priorities and persistence.

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That's a *seriously* productive day!

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thereal_attentive's avatar thereal_attentive @therealattentive.bsky.social
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Amen.

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thereal_attentive's avatar thereal_attentive @therealattentive.bsky.social
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I see edited clips in both directions. It's true, they're both old & struggling. But one of them defaults to kind, the other to cruel. Most critical: we're voting for the team of advisors, cabinet, & leaders they bring with them & listen to. One side wants to help, the other to burn it all down.

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thereal_attentive's avatar thereal_attentive @therealattentive.bsky.social
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We're in this current mess because some people are having a big mad because a black man had the audacity to siit in the White House and they were given permission to let those feelings of hatred out. To have a *woman* - of *color* - in that office? They would literally rather burn the world down.

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thereal_attentive's avatar thereal_attentive @therealattentive.bsky.social
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Sing. Definitely sing loudly to some fun songs and get your birds singing with you. :)

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thereal_attentive's avatar thereal_attentive @therealattentive.bsky.social
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Wait... so she grilled a steak, mowed the lawn, *and* ordered you another guitar? Wow!

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thereal_attentive's avatar thereal_attentive @therealattentive.bsky.social
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The despicable target audience have already been voting for TFG as vengeance for Obama having been allowed in office. Nothing new here. Just electrons refreshing the deep racist-red phosphor.

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thereal_attentive's avatar thereal_attentive @therealattentive.bsky.social
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1: "her riding lawn mower" implies you have his and hers riding lawnmowers... very romantic. 2: Are ya'll poly? Cuz I *too* have a grill and lawn I can't seem to get around to mowing 3: Ya'll are so sweet it's giving me cavities. N:...relationship goals.

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thereal_attentive's avatar thereal_attentive @therealattentive.bsky.social
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I had the same issue and had to resort to waiting til we were at the beach and was then able to find augers everywhere... the expensive beach supply stores and even the grocery stores had them...

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thereal_attentive's avatar thereal_attentive @therealattentive.bsky.social
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This is only acceptable if the reference date predates the ooof-date in parens. (i.e. "Snoswick 1997 (Ooooof 2010)")

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thereal_attentive's avatar thereal_attentive @therealattentive.bsky.social
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My recommendations: Young Frankenstein Blazing Saddles Princess Bride

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thereal_attentive's avatar thereal_attentive @therealattentive.bsky.social
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I totally read that as "bean side" (as in side dish) and immediately thought, "could be worse, could be jello mold" and then thought "wait, like 'three-bean' or 'refried dip'?" and went to read the comments - "ohhhhhhhh."

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thereal_attentive's avatar thereal_attentive @therealattentive.bsky.social
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Glitching? More like a meltdown, amirite?

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thereal_attentive's avatar thereal_attentive @therealattentive.bsky.social
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My FIL used to repeat the saying "it all ends in worms", but that focuses only on the last paragraph of the last page. "It all exists in love" covers the entire rest of the book. I'm so sorry for the pain you're feeling. It's all the more painful because of the family bond, love, & shared history.

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thereal_attentive's avatar thereal_attentive @therealattentive.bsky.social
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<unbroken deadpan stare directly in their eye> "You know, I'm getting that feeling again..."

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No! OMG! Oh, I'm so terribly sorry to hear about this agony on top of the agony you were all already suffering. Please, hold each other close. It's the only way you can endure it. My heart already broke for you all... now it shatters.

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thereal_attentive's avatar thereal_attentive @therealattentive.bsky.social
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My daughter complained about an annoying word all her friends wouldn't stop using. I told her if she wanted it to stop, just ask some of the parents to start using it. A week of some of us randomly throwing it into conversation 'incorrectly' cringed them so bad it sussed it right out of them. ;)

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I am so terribly sorry to hear about this tragedy. I cannot imagine the pain you are all feeling. Though I know it's not your thing, you're all in my prayers - as that's the only thing I can do from all the way over here on the other end of this inter-tube... my heart breaks for you.

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thereal_attentive's avatar thereal_attentive @therealattentive.bsky.social
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I came here to say this... I'm 60. there was also gopher, ICQ, URouLette, Prodigy, blogger, many search engines, dozens of "better bulletin board" attempts, music and movie pirate sites, and the heyday of aggregators like Slashdot and Boing Boing. They flared up like supernovas, then we moved on.

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thereal_attentive's avatar thereal_attentive @therealattentive.bsky.social
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Does the dentist look like Steve Martin? I would walk to the receptionist, cancel my appointment, and ask for a copy of all my records. There is no way I'm *ever* letting someone like that in my mouth. I can't wear a mask around that asshole during dental work... I do not trust them at all.

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thereal_attentive's avatar thereal_attentive @therealattentive.bsky.social
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I live in NC. These laws are seriously f'd up. They are performative nonsense and won't stand up in court. They are solely used for twitter likes and to paint targets on people they don't like. I'm not changing my behavior at all. Masks at all times in any interior spaces w/people.

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thereal_attentive's avatar thereal_attentive @therealattentive.bsky.social
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It's in alt-groups like Steam Powered Giraffe or Marian Call, which, arguably, new wave/punk/grunge/etc *were* the alt-scene. Seems once a group signs, they migrate to "average inoffensive", so the interesting/creative/whimsical will always be alt.

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C'mon, he'd be a perfectly good VP.

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thereal_attentive's avatar thereal_attentive @therealattentive.bsky.social
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I wish my fitness watch gave me credit for the steps my brain takes when running in circles my body doesn't want to follow.

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thereal_attentive's avatar thereal_attentive @therealattentive.bsky.social
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Oh wow! So it was active multiple times over a long period. I was confused by the overlapping roughly circular shape and assumed craters. Thanks!

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thereal_attentive's avatar thereal_attentive @therealattentive.bsky.social
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Do I understand the image correctly - in the larger image there are around a dozen-ish widely-spread craters outside the volcano, but in the immediate vicinity of the caldera there are a cluster of 6-ish? Any ideas why they're so unevenly distributed?

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Those pics very often appear in pairs... ...I'll see myself out.

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thereal_attentive's avatar thereal_attentive @therealattentive.bsky.social
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Every time I get a stuck song (or someone I know tells me they have a stuck song) I start singing Row, row, row your boat and it's fixed. Of course, some of the fix comes from them smacking me for sticking *that* song in their head and then arguing about how cruel I am... but the song is gone. ;)

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thereal_attentive's avatar thereal_attentive @therealattentive.bsky.social
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Like, I could see a more internally consistent version like "Remember what 'disappointing your parent' felt like? Well, it's an infintely worse feeling when you realize how your sins hurt me... feeling that truth is hell, but simultaneously feeling my eternal unconditional love - that's heaven."

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"I've totally forgiven you in advance for everything you're ever going to do... but for *that sin* you're going into my fire pit so I can make smores - forever..." is a really weirdly inconsistent message.

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thereal_attentive's avatar thereal_attentive @therealattentive.bsky.social
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"Is what I'm reading in this filing *true* Gregory?"

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thereal_attentive's avatar thereal_attentive @therealattentive.bsky.social
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At this point, even SSD drives are pretty cheap - especially compared to the value of what you might lose.

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thereal_attentive's avatar thereal_attentive @therealattentive.bsky.social
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Great plan. I look at the BackBlaze quarterly disk report & try to stick to long-term reliable drives that hold up under abuse. Seagates usually fare very well. But I also use 3 in rotation on a weekly basis - So I'd lose at most a week of updates. I've recently started using SSDs for daily backups.

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thereal_attentive's avatar thereal_attentive @therealattentive.bsky.social
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You do know they make drives up to, like, 16TB now, right? I mean, the size of disks will always outpace your ability to fill them with music. I think there is a implicit challenge there... forage for more music!

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thereal_attentive's avatar thereal_attentive @therealattentive.bsky.social
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Oh great, now the FDA is gonna have have to investigate Rogaine for killing pathetic balding men ("man" - loosely)...

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IF YOU ARE IN LINE TO MAKE A LOCK HIM UP JOKE, STAY IN LINE.

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Every single time I see this issue pop up, I am amazed how rapidly so many "gentlemen" rush in to encourage the choice of the bear.

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Ah, the halcyon days when people believed that software worked flawlessly and computers never failed (under "normal" or other use). Didn't last long...

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Erin Biba's avatar Erin Biba @erinbiba.bsky.social
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One of the most important things you can do as an ally and as fighter of fascism is stop laughing at evangelical Christians and realize they mean every single word they say. They’re not funny, they’re absolutely terrifying. Take them extremely seriously and act accordingly.

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That point where you realize *some* folks were watching Hunger Games and Squid Game from a different perspective than your own... The same folks that interpreted "Avoid it LIKE THE PLAGUE" to actually mean "lick all the doorknobs to own the libs"

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Really feel the most strongly I ever have that we’re in a fight of decency and knowledge against evil ignorance.

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this scene from Farscape is constantly on my mind lately

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Also, absolutely *no* lesson would be learned by the "God uses natural disasters to punish bad people" crowd.

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