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bex

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Fifteen medical problems in a maxi dress. I like dogs more than people most of the time.


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We're actually pretty good at remembering the anniversary we got together because it's an easy date - April 1, 2000. But we usually are like "oh it's our anniversary. I didn't get you anything. You wanna order delivery and watch a movie?"

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my wife and i always forget until someone reminds us. (19 years in september.)

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half-awake thought that just made me giggle out loud: Gomez and Morticia at a PFLAG meeting

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my personal solo writing has been seen by me and one other person for the last 7 years. well over 2m words and none of it is in any shape for posting but it's made me happy. I really need to get working on the original fantasy though, I do wanna do something with it.

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I have a default habit of minimizing all my windows as soon as anyone comes near my screen. I can write porn on any device but if I get distracted or interrupted it's over. we have so much unfinished smut lolol

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I cannot tell you how many times my chat logs with my girlfriend include some kind of " "hold up I need to make my wife go away" /"tell your wife to go away" so we can continue writing porn" seriously her timing has been unerringly terrible for 18 years but tbh mine isn't great with her either

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"few countries" nearly every country in the world restricts immigration based on health status and how much they think you'll cost their health care. I think the wrinkle here is AU will cancel your visa even if you're already legally in the country. That's less usual.

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This absolute dingus and I send love and hope your day improves.

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Imagine being "outflanked" because the literal President of the United States sought the support of the exact faction of the party that won him the presidency in the first place. If that's outflanking, that's on you, bro. Not my fault you chose the week of the 4th to reenact Pickett's Charge

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centrist backbenchers shocked to learn sitting president, former two-term VP and 649-term senator is, in fact, good at politics

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ngl i wanna read the book about her now. This article was a fascinating read.

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yw! my wife's been really into this. they do one broadcast a month and she always gets a ticket.

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Tickets are like $12 or $13 and come with a free download of the show after the fact

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my biggest help with fatigue is modafinil, which keeps me awake. But without the LDN I often have the bone-deep fatigue that *nothing* will improve but is so overwhelming you can barely move regardless. I mostly only get that in flare or postdrome now.

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read quoted thread. He kept a diary of his hookups which he gave to researchers, which is how they were able to track things. He worked extensively with researchers. He was absolutely not the reason HIV spread across the US.

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it's more her thing than mine but i like the shorts. some of them are...well, choices were made. my wife is a long-time MSTie though.

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tonight is the 5th anniversary of The Mads Are Back so they're doing a night of shorts with almost every single person who's been on the cast, so my wife and i will probably order in and watch a lot of really funny people make fun of a lot of really bad short films.

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it seems to be more effective at managing fatigue than pain for me but it does greatly reduce the background deep muscle aches. I was on 4.5mg for a while and that was okay & then my doc accidentally sent in the 9mg scrip and I asked if we could try it and it's had better results.

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The book And the Band Played On is amazingly well researched and documented and yet it absolutely gets "Patient Zero" completely wrong. I remember when I found out the truth I was pretty horrified by the book's depiction. (I do recommend the book with that admittedly large caveat)

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fwiw i don't have LC but I do have the same practical symptoms due to fibro/POTS/MCAS/ME. I take low-dose naltrexone to manage fibro pain and fatigue, I'm on 9mg daily and it is a subtle but significant effect. I don't notice it working but I *really* notice when I miss it.

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Your complaint has been registered with The Internet. We apologize for your poor experience but regretfully cannot do anything to improve it. Thank you for contacting The Internet. (heat is a monster and i am very sorry you're not feeling well)

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the most frustrating aspect of this campaign to me is that it has stripped me down to bare pragmatism "does this give us a better chance to beat Trump" is the only thing that is important to me anymore the danger is so overwhelming that nothing else matters and I hate it

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star trek into darkness is such a flawed movie and i love it so fucking much anyway

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I have daydreams of someone taking me by the wrists and snapping my body out the way you'd do a sheet, with the result of everything falling into place

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Anna Meier's avatar Anna Meier @annameier.bsky.social
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My favorite tried-and-true resistance tactic: Being Extremely Fucking Annoying.

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I am happy when TERFS are sad.

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I canceled my news sub years ago but kept my cooking sub. I did cancel that a couple years ago, and when the chat rep asked why I said "Your paper is trying to murder my trans wife." they've never asked me about coming back I do miss the cooking app but I like my wife alive more

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this has been my overriding concern with everything I don’t care what’s fair, I don’t care if he’s a literal zombie, I don’t care about anything except what beats Trump

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they're just very sensitive lol. I might be a supertaster, I can't tolerate anything spicy or bitter. I hate coffee and leafy greens and jalapeños make my mouth feel like it's on fire. salty or sweet and I'm there. anything else can be hit or miss. bodies are weird.

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Dave Levitan's avatar Dave Levitan @davelevitan.bsky.social
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A get out the vote ad that just says “do you really want the FRENCH to beat us?”

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ok I do this too (1 packet) but my body needs a lot of salt and nothing is ever salty enough for me altho my childhood best friend's entire family smoked like chimneys so maybe there's a correlation

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my wife used to say I was the only person she knew who salted her McDonald's fries I'm not alone (and I'm not a smoker lol)

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Funranium (AKA Phil Broughton)'s avatar Funranium (AKA Phil Broughton) @funranium.bsky.social
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Big Bridge Stuck is a infrastructure problem indicator level up on Big Boat Stuck.

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😭💜💙 you are a truly delightful person and I am so very glad to call you my friend

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Bebe Neuwirth  (she/her)'s avatar Bebe Neuwirth (she/her) @bebeneuwirth.bsky.social
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Sometimes my scroll gets it right.

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What if we all just decided not to today?

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how about we maybe don't judge the food people buy even if we consider the packaging wasteful and the product inferior? can we maybe do that?

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there is no ethical consumption under capitalism. I'm just trying to feed myself.

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okay but what is my alternative? I refuse to feel guilty about buying a food I actually use on a regular basis. is packaged chicken stock worse than all the produce that dies in my fridge without being eaten? or the leftovers that get tossed after not being eaten? I'll use up the stock at least.

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cosign the Fluff & Tuff rec! They are the only toys that stood up to my 80lb pit bull. They are very careful to say that they do not make indestructible toys *but* they think their toys will last longer than the average.

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thank you! I didn't notice the alt text before, my apologies.

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...how do i translate this lol, i don't know French!

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i can safely say i have never had that urge lmao

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I actually do keep chicken stock on hand because I cook my rice and other short grains in chicken broth instead of water and it doesn't taste right to me if I use bouillon instead. It is possible to get decent quality commercial chicken stock, I'm not buying Swanson.

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it's always fun, by which i mean absolutely not, when a food you thought was safe/tasty turns into Not Edible in the middle of eating it. I guess Burger King is now off my list.

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