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What I find very interesting about Arcane is how much shimmer is absolutely not a fun drug. It would have been so easy to just go that route and they didn’t, it’s way more interesting. What’s baffling is the number of people who still look at it and see it as one.

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Rusty Foster (derogatory)'s avatar Rusty Foster (derogatory) @rusty.todayintabs.com
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AHAB stands for assigned harpoon at birth

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I was so confused by this because sounded so dirty to me for reasons I didn’t understand, I guess this was why.

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It’s exactly what it sounds like.

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livvy the kikimouse✴️🐭's avatar livvy the kikimouse✴️🐭 @mousegirl.boo
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folding paper "hamburger style" makes no sense, where are u getting these oblong hamburgers?? the platonic ideal of a hamburger is a circle!!!

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Is this different from a normal one?

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I’m imagining Lackadaisy-branded wine bricks now.

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Someday I’ll write The Book about being sexualized and abused by adult women as a pre-trans boy by being seen as a “safe alternative” to all the men in their lives and how they believed it couldn’t be bad or sexual because they were straight woman.

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Ben Freeman 🏳️‍⚧️🏳️‍🌈's avatar Ben Freeman 🏳️‍⚧️🏳️‍🌈 @phoenixashes76.bsky.social
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And us guys get the other side. “We imagine you as opting out of all the shit parts of being assigned female HOW FKN DARE YOU” so nobody believes we get a double dose of sexism bc we’re trans, assigned female, & smeared w all the stereotypes about men but its ok bc it’s aFfiRmiNg to male bash us

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Claire Willett's avatar Claire Willett @clairewillett.bsky.social
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Gomez, totally confused: how do you decide who leads when you tango if you are both the same gender AND height Morticia: oh have I not told you about great-aunt Maleficent Addams and her all-lesbian coven? the year was 1693 and

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Claire Willett's avatar Claire Willett @clairewillett.bsky.social
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half-awake thought that just made me giggle out loud: Gomez and Morticia at a PFLAG meeting

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Arie, Mother of Dragons 🐉 || Team Seafoam's avatar Arie, Mother of Dragons 🐉 || Team Seafoam @dreamwyrm.co.uk
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Art vs Model

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Don’t get me wrong, I adore it when he rips into landlords, religious hypocrites, and people being cruel to animals, but the ones that make me laugh hardest are the frequent times when someone does something absolutely perfectly normal and True just clobbers them for that crime. Here’s a random one:

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I don’t know the exact writer but I feel like it’s a more likely explanation than you’d think.

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definitely a school of thought that exists, though probably not one that’s subscribed to by most SF/F writers.

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I dunno. I was talking with my other trans friends and they remember taking creative writing classes and always being told to write from the perspective of “their” gender as kids before they came out and how uncomfortable it was. That you “should” write from your own gender’s perspective is —

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That’s why I thought this guy may be more of a concept writer where the issue is usually these guys just finding what they consider the “female sphere” uninteresting which is a very different issue than either. Or he could be a scalie, I dunno.

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And this isn’t really something that is fixable without totally changing one’s writing style to something at least more distant, if it is possible at all to do and one might question why do it if body-centered writing is one’s strength.

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I think I am being misinterpreted. I question the honesty of his answer but also question whether there are any real answers he could have said. Eg someone in another post brought up gender dysphoria as a reason which I think can be a very real issue for body-centered writers

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ArtButMakeItSports's avatar ArtButMakeItSports @artbutmakeitsports.bsky.social
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Untitled, by Georgia O'Keeffe, 1979, 📸 by @franck_fife

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MC Unexpected Item In Bagging Area's avatar MC Unexpected Item In Bagging Area @kobilacroix.bsky.social
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minority rule: pretty bad minotaur rule: probably still bad but could get interesting

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אברה (wingeater)'s avatar אברה (wingeater) @wingeater.bsky.social
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more gay Sephardic poetry source uncertain, sent by an Ashkenazi friend who works at a weird bookstore while I was asleep and now he's asleep

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Your Internet Friend Tom Tomorrow's avatar Your Internet Friend Tom Tomorrow @tomtomorrow.bsky.social
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I would love to have this as a desk

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connectpoliticditto. 's avatar connectpoliticditto. @cpoliticditto.bsky.social
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I do, in fact, have a sunny disposition (distant, gassy, capable of causing great damage to anyone exposed to me for prolonged periods of time)

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C.B. Blanchard is writing about gay werewolves's avatar C.B. Blanchard is writing about gay werewolves @gaycannibalism.bsky.social
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See, I became a writer because when you're a writer you can create a little guy and destroy him whenever you feel like that. Seems healthier.

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Neurons are just what the brain and nerves look like when you zoom in far enough. But that's still a measurement, and a measurement of a thing is not the thing. We're all just fluctuations in the quantum field. Tell that to your therapist

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Suzan Palumbo the yard goth.'s avatar Suzan Palumbo the yard goth. @sillysyntax.bsky.social
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LORD I lost the 1k I added yesterday because the computer did some weird reboot in the night. SOB. Luckily my vain ass took a screen shot of the part I loved best??? So at least I can add that back in exactly as I wrote it. Moral - be vain.

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Kevin's avatar Kevin @kap3692.bsky.social
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Lol remember how 3d printing was gonna revolutionize life as we know it but today it's mostly used by nerds to make costumes

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I used to fantasise about an early death, for lots of reasons - some heartbreakingly dark, some queasily narcissistic. I've finally outgrown it, I think. I'm going to live two whole centuries, outlive you all, die unnoticed and unremarked, a remade secret.

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I only read it all the way through for the first time and found it fascinating how much was going on there, it really made it feel like the world contained multitudes of narratives like the real world, but also, would really, really not work for the “modern reader”.

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Proof of Burden's avatar Proof of Burden @proofofburden.bsky.social
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This reread of LOTR, I'm much more sensitive to the tonal wander and I think it genuinely takes Tolkien 150 pages to settle on the kind of story he's going to tell, and why a lot of people founder on it

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Jessica, Kait's Wife 🏳️‍⚧️🏳️‍🌈's avatar Jessica, Kait's Wife 🏳️‍⚧️🏳️‍🌈 @pairofclaws.bsky.social
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I grew up IN THE 90s. We didn't have "Xbox" or "iPhones". I drank FROM THE HOSE. My body FILLED UP WITH WATER. I inflated LIKE A GIANT BALLOON. My family BEGGED ME TO STOP. I flew off into the air SPRAYING WATER EVERYWHERE. It was ON THE NEWS. God won't LET ME INTO HEAVEN NOW. Can I get a HECK YEAH?

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Lux Alptraum לקס אלפטראום's avatar Lux Alptraum לקס אלפטראום @luxalptraum.com
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Not sure how memories of the Holocaust are Jews’ “Crown Jewels,” for one thing, we didn’t steal them from India

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Timothy Burke's avatar Timothy Burke @bubbaprog.ilovecitr.us
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The insidiousness of social networks no longer displaying in reverse chronological order and thus seeing, say, some friends' anniversary post ten days after they posted it, at the top of my feed... I mean, that's all FB is anymore. And they can't even get that right.

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LA Guettler [insert cleverness here]'s avatar LA Guettler [insert cleverness here] @laguettler.bsky.social
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If you read just one book this month, that's awesome because reading isn't a contest.

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Centurii chan's avatar Centurii chan @centuriichan.bsky.social
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apparently not taking pictures is a "waste" and a "missed opportunity"

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Yeah I guess whenever I see these and the answer is essentially “women would roast me on the internet for trying” I wonder if it’s actually honest. Or really it’s just some variation of “I don’t want to”. Because I haven’t read this guy but my gut tells me it’s the latter.

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where if you stick around, the writer’s/artist’s *type* becomes extremely obvious and they’re unlikely to branch out anytime soon. Maybe my mistake is thinking most writers ultimately function like this? I don’t know.

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I guess this may be less of an issue in sf/f (?) but if you read a lot of some authors a decent number will only ever really write one protagonist (who may change or evolve, but remain a pretty narrow archetype) and never branch out. It might be because I spend more time in erotica/romance/fanfic

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Is that the only one?

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Erika Swyler's avatar Erika Swyler @erikaswyler.bsky.social
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Seeing some weird stuff about what people deduce about artists based on their work. (Most of it 20/20 hindsight.) As someone who intentionally works in allegory (though it's NEVER marketed that way), people are givingh way too much weight to literal readings of texts.

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Mina Li (she/her)'s avatar Mina Li (she/her) @codenameminali.bsky.social
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turns out my state is having a contest on "I Voted" sticker designs, and I would like to show you the most metal one by a middle schooler:

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I hear they mark less if they’re fixed.

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I have a feeling we’ll never get this one though because usually when it’s the case, it’s pretty obvious.

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For once I want the answer to “why don’t you write female protagonists” to be: “Well, you see, I often fantasize about my protagonists in sexual situations with each other and I’m not into women. It’s men who get my dick hard, so I use them as my protagonists exclusively.”

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