I prefer to remember people on their birthdays than their death days but since I saw folks giving Bourdain his roses today, 6 years after he left us. Here’s a gift link to what I wrote then
Thank you for sharing! I don’t typically get personally invested in celebrities and never used to understand the way some people grieve over celebrities they don’t know, but his loss was the first I really felt. 💔 Parts Unknown is still the #1 show I recommend to everyone I know.
💔 Robin Williams might have been speaking of Mr. Bourdain (as well as, of course, himself) when he said, "You don't fake depression, you fake being okay."
Thank you so much for sharing this. It took me a long time to be able to watch him again. Here is part of what I wrote when I heard the news 6 years ago: Anthony Bourdain was a meticulous, thought-provoking storyteller. He cared about food, music, writing, and (most of all) people. We will miss him.
Thank you for sharing. I think the Detroit episode was my favorite.
“Before our eyes, he was always learning, and trying to make the world just a little better.”
That’s exactly how I felt while watching his shows.
He wasn't too kind to those fighting for animal welfare.
"Vegetarians, & their Hezbollah-like splinter-faction, the vegans, r a persistent irritant to any chef worth a damn.
Vegetarians are the enemy of everything good & decent in the human spirit, an affront to all I stand for.."
Im glad you said this cause I always choose to remember my dad on his birthday & father's day rather than the day he passed (which happens to be his brother/my uncles birthday)
Funny story he told. He hated Billy Joel's music and said it wasn't allowed in his kitchen. 1 night Joel ate at his place then snuck in the kitchen and had his Pic taken with the kitchen staff and mailed it to Bourdain with the caption: Looks like Billy Joel is allowed in your Kitchen!
It's an odd comparison because he was often (and often hilariously) vulgar, but to me there was something very Mr. Rogers about him: open, curious, and kind.
I don't know if there's a specific term for it, but he was a public intellectual outside of academia. The world needs more of that.
My group still watches Anthony Bourdain shows because, in their own turn, his memory, and comments makes them feel like they've been seen. It's been years since they've seen some episodes, and they still honestly, sincerely smile at his shows.
This is beautiful. I don't know which hurts worse, the fact that he's gone or the fact that we live on in a world that he would have hated, without him.
Reading this is odd, because it sounds like it could have been written last year not 6 years ago. The loss feels a bit like that too. But this remains one of my fav pieces of public writing b/c I received incredibly heartfelt messages from his close friends in response
I love this so much. Whenever I’m struggling to explain to someone why I love Houston so much, I turn them to Bourdain’s Parts Unknown episode about the city. ❤️
You could see him learning about the world, about himself, and about what was important throughout his years doing his shows. When he started he was pretty callow but he wasn't afraid to grow and do it publicly.