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Thorn Bushes Have Roses

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Putting a perfunctory bit here to supplement my sparse activity on this site since I am leery of getting too prolific on any one social site in my middle age and that can come across as suspicious! Life resume: AuDHD, queer, fat, enthusiastic generalist.


Thorn Bushes Have Roses 's avatar Thorn Bushes Have Roses @thornbushes.bsky.social
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I got to go to a workshop he gave at the humane society I volunteer for, I think in 2019. He was great! He spent a few hours at the shelter with staff talking enrichment for shelter kitties in addition to giving his time to volunteers. As far as I heard, he did it for free!

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Lauren W. she/they's avatar Lauren W. she/they @lifelivedwildly.bsky.social
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We're so far past the point where we should know better. Fat people, people who aren't conventionally attractive, and people with visible disabilities aren't less than or more evil than anyone else.

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Can we not use how people look to measure if they’re good? Please? I don’t care if they aged “poorly” because whether someone is aging faster than others truly doesn’t tell us anything about their morality. We know Miller is a piece of shit and we can say that because of his ACTIONS not looks.

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Mr. Am I Being Detained 's avatar Mr. Am I Being Detained @gonebabygone.bsky.social
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Two things can be true, we are on a precipice as a nation where we shouldn’t be and you shouldn’t use the app for people with severe anxiety to follow the debate

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Andrew Nelson's avatar Andrew Nelson @holophrastic.bsky.social
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You can tell who did and who did not moderate IRC/phpBB/whatever back in the day, because all of us who did learned the true shape of online group culture: your culture is the shittiest person you don't ban

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doodlemancy 🏳️‍🌈's avatar doodlemancy 🏳️‍🌈 @doodlemancy.com
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every time i see people try to tell digital artists to Just Use GIMP i'm like... are you a time traveler... did you come here from 2007... can you go back and tell kid me she has ADHD

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Joseph Brassey's avatar Joseph Brassey @josephbrassey.bsky.social
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The internet when people don’t apologize: “DONT YOU UNDERSTAND? ALL IT WOULD TAKE TO MAKE THE HARASSMENT STOP IS AN APOLOGY!” The internet when people apologize: “YOU’RE ONLY DOING THIS TO STOP THE HARASSMENT! WE WON’T STOP!” The internet when the apology has nuance: “THATS NOT A REAL APOLOGY!”

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Andrew the Psycho-Statistician's avatar Andrew the Psycho-Statistician @greatchumpion.bsky.social
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What if you lived in a world where you joined us lifting each other up rather than you just saying "If I was in that hypothetical position I would be content on my own, because I'm so great"?

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Thorn Bushes Have Roses 's avatar Thorn Bushes Have Roses @thornbushes.bsky.social
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Going off what online articles say things should cost can be unhelpful because they are often outdated! Friend got his puppy spayed for $900 last month, best price he could find. Places that do it cheaper have long wait lists/are income based. (Also OP seems fine with cost so no advice needed?)

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I get this exact same Avis email! For everyone replying to mark as spam/junk in Gmail/Apple mail or block the sender, it doesn’t do enough. Blocked senders go to spam in Gmail (why not ACTUALLY BLOCK?!), which I still glance through to rescue legit emails, so more spam still = more work.

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Eva Holland's avatar Eva Holland @evaholland.bsky.social
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Confession: I've been a casual Today in Tabs reader for years without paying, in part because I love Tabs but I suspect that engaging closely with its content is bad for my brain. You know what's good for my brain, tho? Today On Trail! Which I have now paid for, and you can too. www.todayontrail.com

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This is incredible! What a lovely work of art for Pride!

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nattie winters's avatar nattie winters @utilitylimb.bsky.social
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if you're sick of seeing unknown numbers calling your phone i made a handy chart that can help

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potato doritos's avatar potato doritos @potato-doritos.bsky.social
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that's most of the point of social media though. it's like church only you don't get to go anywhere good when you're dead

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hezekiah 🏴‍☠️🏳️‍⚧️✡️Ⓐ🍉's avatar hezekiah 🏴‍☠️🏳️‍⚧️✡️Ⓐ🍉 @spiritomb.bsky.social
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being too disabled to work doesn't mean that every day for me is a vacation. it means that normal everyday activities that nondisabled people think are effortless are an exhausting job for my brain and body.

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Not lame, this may have been the one most useful to everyday life! Thanks for sharing!! 🍕

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Matthew Cortland (they)'s avatar Matthew Cortland (they) @matthewcort.land
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The 'People's CDC' are lying, fear-mongering amateurs who are continuing to do a tremendous amount of harm.

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Thorn Bushes Have Roses 's avatar Thorn Bushes Have Roses @thornbushes.bsky.social
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I really appreciate this follow up, had put it on my reading list and just removed it. Not to say that everyone should do that!! I am a fat person fighting internalized weight stigma and give myself a pass to avoid media that makes that harder. I know it means I miss out on a lot of great media!

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My significant other is a big Apple nerd so from watching last year’s WWDC with her, I am happy to report they addressed the aggressive autocorrection of swear words! 🐥ed no more!

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darth™️'s avatar darth™️ @darthbluesky.bsky.social
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expand the court it is just a suggestion

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I was sure this dog running at my huge dog that was clearly not wanting to be approached was going to end in bloodshed. I honestly stopped walking my dog after that, I was badly shaken up. It was impossible to avoid unleashed dogs no matter how careful I was about when and where. 😔

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Thorn Bushes Have Roses 's avatar Thorn Bushes Have Roses @thornbushes.bsky.social
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To scare off a dog as it approached, a husky who was running towards my dog as she as absolutely losing her mind, and caused the other dog to stop in its tracks, turn and run and not return. It felt like a miracle that I was able to pop it open without letting go of the leash in the other hand!

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Thorn Bushes Have Roses 's avatar Thorn Bushes Have Roses @thornbushes.bsky.social
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An umbrella works well in my experience, if you pop it open it really startles dogs and they think twice. I had an extremely dog reactive Great Dane and I lived in abject terror of loose dogs while walking her, the umbrella tip was one I got from our trainer.

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Thorn Bushes Have Roses 's avatar Thorn Bushes Have Roses @thornbushes.bsky.social
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Sometimes I read their comment sections and it absolutely makes sense to me why they publish shit like this. Miserably smug jerks get to read about other miserably smug jerks (and leave a comment about how this brand of pretentious bullshit isn’t as good as their own pretentious bullshit.)

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This joke about supposed laziness of nerds is lazy as shit.

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Amanda Smith's avatar Amanda Smith @amandasmith.bsky.social
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Ok but can we also discuss the ongoing Unsolicited Advice Crisis of Bsky because a lot of people On Here seem to mistake “sharing an errant thought” with “asking for a four part reply of advice and lecturing”

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