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Nico Mara-McKay πŸ¦‡ (they/iel)

@plutopsyche.nicomaramckay.com

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Historian and PhD student in Tkaronto (Toronto). Likes bats, monsters, sincereposting, and alt text. ND. Genderqueer. Trans. 40s. πŸ‘¬ nicomaramckay.com

Ephemeral Record of trans and queer histories: patreon.com/ephemeralrecord


Nico Mara-McKay πŸ¦‡ (they/iel)'s avatar Nico Mara-McKay πŸ¦‡ (they/iel) @plutopsyche.nicomaramckay.com
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As long as Portugal and Italy lose, my neighbourhood is quiet.

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I can never duel again. I don't want to risk my newfound undefeated status.

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Victory!

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Accept

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You never use alt text though, so how serious is your concern about ableism?

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Accept

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Would you like to see my cat.

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I've also volunteered at events where there are low to limited social interactions, like being a clicker counter at a queer film festival. I get to help out and still be a part of things, but without getting overwhelmed.

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I just realized that I cheated. My birthday is on Saturday. I'm actually still 41. I'm trying to get used to the new number and somehow I forgot that it hasn't actually happened yet. 🀦

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I volunteer for an org where I write and edit things to support community initiatives. I get anxiety at in-person events, but this gives me a way to support causes I care about without having to do that. Also, money. I donate direct MA and to charitable organizations that I trust.

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Barred and Boujee aka Madiba Dennie's avatar Barred and Boujee aka Madiba Dennie @audrelawdamercy.bsky.social
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Lots of good resources in the replies here! πŸ‘‡πŸ½

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Oh, that's why I couldn't run 10k even at 8 am. I managed 8 before I had to tap out. This summer is going to be rough. (For the US folks, that's "feels like 86 F" with the humidex.)

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Inspired by the recent allegations, but also *gestures broadly*

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I had an anxiety dream about being tested but not having paper to write it on and now my whole day is ruined? Thanks, brain.

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My cat enjoys them. We call them "Lyddy snacks."

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That would look so cool in our next census though.

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Jeph Jacques's avatar Jeph Jacques @ass.golf
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As an American who Actually Moved To Canada, here are some things to consider if you’re serious about getting the fuck out of the US, a thread:

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Mx. D.E. Anderson's avatar Mx. D.E. Anderson @diannaeanderson.bsky.social
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hey babes just a reminder that ADHD and autism are disabilities and you can in fact seek accommodations for them in the workplace

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It took me 8 months on T at 70 mg before menstruation finally stopped for me. It was such a relief when it finally did. I wish you luck!

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The quoted method (Alt4Me) is provided by humans, the bot linked to in the above post is indeed a bot. You have options!

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Alt text will be provided for text-based images when you message @alt-text.bsky.social following the post with the image.

If you don't have the capacity to write alt text yourself, there are solutions to ensure that your posts are still accessible, so that everyone can enjoy them.

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If they belong in a Blur song, they're hot.

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Link is coconut-pilled. πŸ₯₯ 🌴 's avatar Link is coconut-pilled. πŸ₯₯ 🌴 @knilirabaj.bsky.social
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Like most conversations about ableist language, the actual point is deeper. At least to me. The reason to examine the language isn’t simply the word choice, but rather the unexamined relationship to the societal default. Language is the entrance to which we can have a larger conversation.

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Yes! We constantly warn each about not sharing the questionably legal stuff we're doing to support our communities, but then people misinterpret that as not giving a shit or only caring about "virtue signalling" or something. Either way, I'd rather having someone signal virtue than the other thing.

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JJ is tired's avatar JJ is tired @jjofbc.bsky.social
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Also posting actually can be praxis. Many disabled folks are posting because they can’t get out in the world, because it’s not safe or accessible for them. So much of my politics and my understanding of the world that I have brought into my real life work has been shaped by what I’ve learned online

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I love everything about this photo of Joey Ramone c. 1985, from the correctly punctuated hand-lettered sign with equalized pricing for the three genders, to the photo of Aretha Franklin on the cover of Long Island Pulse Magazine and Grace Jones in the ad on the back.

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Positive or additive quoteskeets are good. Quotedunking usually results in a block from me. When a big account does it to someone with like a couple hundred followers, I will often block them. There are ethical ways to quotedunk: screenshot, remove pfp & username to dunk the idea, not the person.

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🌈 Dr Ross Brooks's avatar 🌈 Dr Ross Brooks @rossb-brighton.bsky.social
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πŸ“Ί You wait a lifetime for a queer nature documentary and then two come along at once - typical! Hot on the heels of Queer Planet is Second Nature: Gender & Sexuality in the Animal World, narrated by the wonderful Elliot Page. It looks awesome! πŸ¦’πŸ³οΈβ€βš§οΈπŸ¬πŸ³οΈβ€πŸŒˆπŸ  #QueerInSTEM

www.secondnaturedoc.com

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YOU can become a citizen archivist! Help to preserve the art, culture and stories of your community β€” we're going to need all of it in the times to come

My latest newsletter is all about how to become an archivist. It starts with recognizing that you are important!

buttondown.email/charliejane/...

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Georgina Kiersten (they/them)'s avatar Georgina Kiersten (they/them) @ingloriousgigi.bsky.social
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Hey does anyone have any recs for Black steampunk by Black authors? I'm having a hard time finding these books myself and I really would love to see a Black perspective on this genre.

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They need a new self help book for companies called β€œhow to solve all your problems by giving up on that product no one wants.”

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As well-meaning publishers try to navigate the coming storm of state laws against diversity, I hope they'll consider Timothy Snyder's Rule #1 (from his slim book ON TYRANNY).

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Wait, there's now an option to make the alt text box a readable size again? That's such good news!! This should have been hyped more.

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Bree Lundberg ✨'s avatar Bree Lundberg ✨ @breelundberg.com
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For Disability Pride Month I’m once again begging for more artists to start considering accessibility and add alt text to your images. It helps low/no vision folks, neurodivergent folks, and more. Plus alt text shows up in searches! There’s a toggle in settings so you won’t forget. πŸ‘‡

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Or like IRC, but where you can still participate in past conversations.

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There's a lot to consider. I hope you can do whatever feels right for you! πŸ–€

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Wait, no. Three years. What even is time, anyway.

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Oh yeah. Yesterday was my two year anniversary of getting top surgery. Still the best decision I have ever made for my body. More important to feeling right in my body than starting testosterone, though that's also been good. If you think you might be happier without breasts, look into it. It's πŸ‘Œ

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There's even a separate feed for NSFW images, so everyone can enjoy them.