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Barred and Boujee aka Madiba Dennie

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lmao I called my local coffeeshop to see if they were open today--my fave barista happened to pick up & she was like yep we're here and also we have almond lemon loaves left [one of my go-to pastries] truly if you want the benefits of being loved you must submit to the embarrassment of being known

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Sylvia Solanas's avatar Sylvia Solanas @sylviasolanas.com
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this is so well put

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Phoebe Lostroh's avatar Phoebe Lostroh @profphoebe.bsky.social
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Very true.

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Stavinair's avatar Stavinair @stavinair.bsky.social
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Tfw the phone repair guy knows my name because I went there three separate times to get my phone screen replaced 💀

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Schrodinger's Horse 's avatar Schrodinger's Horse @schrodingershorse.bsky.social
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The family that owns the little Vietnamese restaurant in my neighborhood gets worried when I haven't been in for a while

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y'all'dn't've's avatar y'all'dn't've @briantist.bsky.social
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📌

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Angie's avatar Angie @aes14.bsky.social
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That sound delicious, Madiba! Save me a piece! 😉🥰☕️☀️🇺🇸

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C.B. Blanchard is writing about gay werewolves's avatar C.B. Blanchard is writing about gay werewolves @gaycannibalism.bsky.social
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At my local library I am in there so often they notice if I miss a week. They make comments about my large borrow piles like 'last you the weekend?' I am known. At my local library. (I like it)

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word's avatar word @words.bsky.social
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was getting food at an italian restaurant and the server was calling someone to tell them they have their favorite special on the menu tonight like the server was cold calling a regular to say they have that dish they know they loved

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Kelemi Hirut's avatar Kelemi Hirut @mamakspeaks.bsky.social
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Ain’t this the truth. I’m headed to my favorite coffee shop now because my favorite barista text me like Am I making your drink today. 😂

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Steve's avatar Steve @moseleyite.bsky.social
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For sure. My wife and I went to a local restaurant so often when it opened that the manager gave us friends and family discount and could almost predict our order!

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Linda Holmes's avatar Linda Holmes @lindaholmes.bsky.social
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I lived in Brooklyn for a year, and my greatest day was when I realized the guy who mixed an iced coffee by flipping the cup end to end knew me and made my drink when he saw me.

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Robin Of Broccoli 's avatar Robin Of Broccoli @robinofbroccoli.bsky.social
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**Baristas will never share your secrets. 🙂❤️ and they really do know.

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Dawn Xiana Moon's avatar Dawn Xiana Moon @dawnxianamoon.bsky.social
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My favorite server at a restaurant in my neighborhood did me an incredible solid last week!

Thread for story:

bsky.app/profile/dawn...

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Pseudandry's avatar Pseudandry @pseudandry.bsky.social
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I've been a regular at a few places in my neighbourhood that unfortunately haven't survived the slings and arrows of fortune, but I didn’t realise how regular until a former waitress for a sushi place lost to a fire a year prior called out to me on the street and asked after my life 🥹

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carodjah!✨at the Sabzeruz✨'s avatar carodjah!✨at the Sabzeruz✨ @carodjah.bsky.social
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I’ve lived most my life in a small town, to the point that some local gas station workers have known me since birth. Made it weird when I lived in a city, finding out it’s not universal to hang and chat with a cashier for an hour.

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Chris 🏳️‍⚧️🏳️‍🌈 (she/her)'s avatar Chris 🏳️‍⚧️🏳️‍🌈 (she/her) @shitposting.tubaterry.me
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There's a bakery up the street from me where they saw my email on an order and started drawing tubas on the bags. So I saved em for a year and made a collage for them. Which they then hung up and curated like a museum piece. I love em there and they're always happy to see me ❤️

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Sarah Orsborn's avatar Sarah Orsborn @erniebufflo.bsky.social
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As a restaurant worker: this means you're a great customer! Love taking great care of "regulars."

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Erica Picatinny ᛒᛉᛞᚹ 🕊️'s avatar Erica Picatinny ᛒᛉᛞᚹ 🕊️ @picatinnyrailed.bsky.social
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That's really sweet 🖤

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Marjorie James Keenan's avatar Marjorie James Keenan @unenthusiast.com
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once more for the ranks of the freaks who suspect they can never love anyone: "truly if you want the benefits of being loved you must submit to the embarrassment of being known"

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Knut Morå's avatar Knut Morå @knut.dundasmora.no
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The fish seller at the local farmers market greets everyone in a sometimes quite long line by name, some banter etc. after seeing you twice-- it's like watching an Olympic athlete

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Barry Dorrans's avatar Barry Dorrans @blowdart.me
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My local sushi place on Monday “We’re launching a loyalty program, as you’re here so much can we test it on you?” 😂

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Jessie Losch's avatar Jessie Losch @jessielosch.bsky.social
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Almond lemon loaves sound incredible!

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Sam Tung's avatar Sam Tung @samtung.bsky.social
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My tabletop RPG group ordered from the same Thai restaurant every week and there was always 1-2 orders of Yellow Chicken Curry. One week we mixed it up and nobody ordered it, and they called us to make sure they hadn’t gotten it down wrong.

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Erica S's avatar Erica S @ericalscott.bsky.social
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I copied and kept that last sentence. It is so very true.

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jack the nonabrasive 's avatar jack the nonabrasive @karabaic.bsky.social
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If she saved it for you, she's a keeper

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JaneDanger's avatar JaneDanger @anasmashnova.bsky.social
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Being known Is embarassing!

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Pineapple Spotter's avatar Pineapple Spotter @pinapplespotter.bsky.social
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I got called out as a ‘regular’ at a local doughnut shop. I had mixed feelings about it.

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Intellectual Explorer 's avatar Intellectual Explorer @driftingthrough.bsky.social
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Where did that "If you want to be loved.." bit come from? #Genius I'm going to reuse that.

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professional agitatormama's avatar professional agitatormama @pnutsmama.bsky.social
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love these calm, lovely interactions w regular people who are also not there to ruin anyone’s day

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Confused Urkel's avatar Confused Urkel @garthvaderginsburg.bsky.social
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For those who, like me, had never heard that beautiful sentiment:

archive.nytimes.com/opinionator....

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Garlax, The Weasel King's avatar Garlax, The Weasel King @garlaxweaselking.bsky.social
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Gods above and below I love/hate that feeling. The folks at the gelato place near my house make a point of introducing me to new employees. It’s super embarrassing, but… also really nice.

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Judith Butlerian Jihad's avatar Judith Butlerian Jihad @xanindigo.bsky.social
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Years ago, I used to go to the same coffee place every day during my lunch break and I'd almost always just get a medium americano. After a while, some of the servers would just prepare it while I was still queueing and it'd be already waiting for my be the time I got to the counter.

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