One of the worst things that Game of Thrones has enabled (involuntarily) in a particular kind of almost exclusively male nerd is a permission structure for going UMM WELL ACTUALLY at "unrealistic" depictions of medieval life (which aren't even unrealistic, you're just an undereducated twat)
they also forget that drawing aesthetically on the popular imagination of medieval europe is not the same thing as being set in medieval Europe. as long as something isn't out of place with the rest of the setting, you can have things like potatoes and power looms
also, why so few water/windmills?
Especially maddening because the books are VERY concerned with medieval era TACTICS and the show is basically "IDK they all run towards each other screaming I guess" and you'd THINK these guys would be mad about that
this has existed in nerdspace since the 1970s
been putting up with "potatoes but no poc" as the default setting up till the last 10-15 years where the big-picture fanbase has become more mainstream and less racist
IDK, I'd say the massive central role of Christianity and its relationship with politics and legitimization of authority is extremely important in the IRL middle ages and if your RPG setting doesn't have a good parallel to that, might as well go nuts with whatever else.
A coworker from a previous job argued that "that's how it was back then," and I spent the rest of my time working with him asking him, with some frequency, about "historic Game of Thrones time" and asking if he was also an expert on the Flintstones era of history.
@dayoldbaguette.bsky.social was just telling me about how a bunch of people responded to someone online looking for advice on what hobbies a medieval stasis commoner might have with UMM ACTUALLY IN FEUDAL SOCIETIES ONLY NOBLES GET TO HAVE HOBBIES I WOULD FIND IT UNREALISTIC
there's a huge chain of connective tissue from "realistic" to "Aesthetically pleasing to me" and a lot of would-be fantasy nerds don't know how to make it work.
Why people enjoy "The House of Dragons" is beyond me. The sets are the same fake backgrounds as GOT, but the writing is utter crap. The whiney entitled white haired dude is intolerable. I avoid it now as if it were covid.