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Hildur Knútsdóttir@hildur.bsky.social |
This article is so good and packs so many killer lines that are so insightful that I literally could not decide on which to copy and paste here so just go read the whole thing.
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gertrudious
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"If I deny his attempts at closeness by leaving or setting a boundary, he could feel frustrated, rejected, or ashamed. If he doesn’t know how to recognize or manage those feelings, he’s likely to experience them as anger." so many descriptions in here are 100% familiar
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Auzorst
@auzorst.bsky.social
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Thanks for sharing this.
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@love-heal-create.bsky.social
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What a great read that succinctly addresses the debate o' the day from a unique perspective.
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Far McKon
@farmckon.bsky.social
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What an amazing article, thanks for pointing it out.
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Leigh Tenhet
@lileigh.bsky.social
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Immediately shared it with multiple people It felt like a suspense story at times despite her being general with her examples. “Intuition rises to the surface of my skin…..” ✅🤩🫶🙌🏽
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Dazdndcunfusd
@dazdndcunfusd.bsky.social
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I love this, thank you for sharing
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Naja Kaouthia (gretten heks)
@najakaouthia.bsky.social
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That was an incredibly good read. Thank you for sharing.
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Joy
@joyjet.bsky.social
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A great read. One that I will share with my daughters.
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Frankie Huang 黄碧赤
@ourobororoboruo.bsky.social
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An astonishing essay, thank you for sharing
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Gary Ruschman
@garyruschman.bsky.social
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This has to be the clearest article on a social subject I’ve ever read.
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Ty🦋
@tylercheek.com
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if I had to pick a line, it'd be "Sometimes, it’s not that I’m afraid of men; I’m just really, really tired." but even that takes context to really understand the weight of it. gah!
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JeannetteBlue
@jeannetteblue.bsky.social
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I’ve decided to refer to the rules made by and for the privilege of men “Boys Treehouse Rules”. They make more sense in that light.
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JeannetteBlue
@jeannetteblue.bsky.social
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This is beautifully written and correct. Consider how salary dives in female dominated fields. Women like it or created it? It’s not worth much. The word emasculate (instead of demean) derives from patriarchy.
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kate
@bookhaven.bsky.social
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📌
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ok city ok
@krogerfoot.bsky.social
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Wow
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AnneZo
@annezo.bsky.social
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A great read. Thanks for sharing!
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Horrified, Lydia
@lfillingham.bsky.social
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This really is a moving, wonderful article. Thank you.
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David A .B.Rooke
@davidrke.bsky.social
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Sums up what is wrong with patriarchy in modern society
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IRFauna🌸Chucklefuck🌸
@irfauna.bsky.social
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Thank you for sharing this. This article better describes what I was attempting to explain to my partner in greater detail as well as much more.
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Rachel Holliday Smith
@rachelholliday.bsky.social
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what a wonderful perspective, and piece of writing. thank you for posting!
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sandra_*_peters
@meemsu.bsky.social
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Agree! And the writing she links to adds so much to her perspective.
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Jane Dough
@lastresponder.bsky.social
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Remember in elementary school when the classroom was pure bedlam, and the teacher would flick the lights until our little nervous systems reset and we could hear the voice of reason? This article feels like that.
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Mike D'Aguillo
@dahguido.bsky.social
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This was excellent, thank you for sharing
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@seosamh.bsky.social
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📌
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JUCIFER
@jucifer.bsky.social
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📌
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Michael Engard
@engard.me
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I have a feeling I’ll be coming back to revisit this piece for a long time.
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James Longhurst
@jameslonghurst.bsky.social
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(this might be a good thread to share that Bikepacking is *hiring* like *right now* in editorial:)
bikepacking.com/news/bikepac...
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ShiftyPumpkin
@shiftypumpkin.com
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yep. I mean, I'm a guy, but also:
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poparhi
@poparhi.bsky.social
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For me it's: "My intuition rises to the surface of my skin. I become a creature of exquisite perception." -just an incredibly beautiful way to describe it.
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Kaia Bell
@kaiabell.bsky.social
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Wow. It’s beautifully written but also describes patriarchal dynamics with such succinct and precise clarity. Really remarkable piece.
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Carrie K
@carriekembtn.bsky.social
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Thank you for posting this. What an amazingly clear, and forgiving, piece of writing.
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Schwester Esther "Ära der erneuerbaren Energie"
@schwester-esther.bsky.social
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I love this: Sexism as an ideology is based on the belief that this division of traits is immutable and biologically mandated; therefore, it’s only “natural” that men inhabit positions of power while women serve caregiving roles. This is coupled with the belief that masculine traits are superior
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Пётр Исотаров
@peterisotalo.bsky.social
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I think we can all gather around the beautiful concept that the bear is indeed not the elephant in the room. ❤️
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Roland Guiscard
@rolandguiscard.bsky.social
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I'm not a woman but as an autistic person with severe social anxiety, I can say that a bear has never: 1. Beaten me up for being gay. 2. Pulled a gun on my dog. 3. Passed laws making me less safe. So as long as a bear is "over there" and not bothering me, I'd prefer a bear.
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Beck W
@loudtristero.bsky.social
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wow awesome writing! still, as a Beck, I don't know if I can trust someone named Laura Killingbeck 😨
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Ellis Beck
@ellisb77.bsky.social
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What a beautifully written and insightful piece.
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anti coldtag aktion
@ind3fatigable.xyz
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📌
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Kristina of ⭐️⭐️
@maytagsmom.bsky.social
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Thank you so much for posting it. It describes PERFECTLY what women go through in practically every encounter with a man.
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Runnin L8
@runnin-l8.bsky.social
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That was a good read. Though the nerd in me wants to know her bike setup after seeing the mileage she put on.
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Mirrored
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Women experience this question as "Aren't you afraid of men?", while men experience it as "Do you realize how dangerous a bear would be up close?" And then each thinks the other side is being ridiculous for answering a question that wasn't asked. Personally, I do think it's very funny that this
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to the left to the left
@roadsdiverge.bsky.social
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This was so good I subscribed to her newsletter!
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Eternal Cat War
@eternalcatwar.bsky.social
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Fantastic read, thank you.
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An English Bear
@ursusclan.bsky.social
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Definitely bear
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Tommy
@tommyg.bsky.social
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Yes to all of that
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Elizabeth Greenspan
@lizgreenspan.bsky.social
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Really good, thank you!
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